This is my first official post on the forums. I signed up because I know I'm not living up to my potential and I need to start working from the ground up. I've always found myself attracted to older women so when I started pof of course these women were my main objective. Been having almost no success unfortunately.

About the only opening message that has worked for me is when I see a girls profile mentioning the ever polular and ineffective "creeps don't message me" variants. I quote radioheads "Creep" in message saying not to reply to me. Ive had roughly 70 to 80 percent success with it. Unfortunately that leaves an immense portion of my target market out.

Any advice is appreciated but please note that I have no interest in sending out mass prewritten messages.