Honesty is always important, I'm a honest guy.
I can see the advantage of stretching it out and buying time (the re-examining). Would you wait telling her what I'm looking for and letting her say what she's looking for, or would you not wait and have that conversation, say, this week?
I might mention: This wednesday we have a meeting & party together. This weekend we both help organise a waterpolo tournament + party, and I'll sleep at the home she lives at. This sunday I'll be on vacation for two weeks. And then in september we're going on a weekend with the board together. And I still have something of mine at her place which I need to pick up this week.
(We have indeed hooked up before; see first post. Have you read what she texted?)