Here's the rundown. I met a 20 year old cutie via Tinder about two weeks ago. We had texted for about 2 weeks prior to meeting and became quite chummy. She's a sorority chick who's transferring to school in Europe next school year. She's living and working in Toronto for the summer where her sorority friends and a bunch of other friends and family are located.
When we finally met, she looked adorable but not quite as hot as her pics (by no means complaining). We went out for drinks after work. She wanted to leave after 2 drinks, we wandered a bit and wound up at my place. Sex was pretty outstanding in my opinion, she was a screamer and I'm surprised I didn't get any complaints. There's no way this was faked.
When she left she seemed radiant and satisfied but when I texted her a few days later she was a bit curt. I backed off then texted again after close to a week. She responded and was polite but aloof. Then I asked her point blank if she wanted to see me again, she said she was just too busy at the moment. I do buy this but also take it as a bit of a brush off.
Can this be salvaged in any way, or do you suppose she was just looking for a one time thing?
I have experienced women running away after great sex on a first/second date. I take this as a fear of attachment, and preferring game to real connections or relationships.