This is a girl from POF. We've been texting for about a week and set up a bowling date for tomorrow night. There's been no red-flags up to this point and the conversation has been really good.
So the date was planned on Monday (by her):
Her: What's planned this weekend?
Me: Not 100% sure yet, helping my brother at his block but hoping it rains so I can head down the coast lol u?
Her: Oh nice...no mention of me in that weekend?
Me: Um if it doesn't rain we might be able to organise something or maybe even Friday night?
Her: Fridays good!
That's not the entire texts, there was another conversation about her being a secret agent and trying to bust me lol
Then today I get:
Her: Hey! I'm going to have to be a complete dork and bale on bowling tomorrow!!!
Me: Haha you are a dork!! Am I getting ditched for a better offer lol :/ <-- In the original date setup we joked about me ditching her for a better offer - I wouldn't have asked this otherwise!
Her: Sorry!! To be completely honest..I'm not good at this 'dating' game and I've been talking to this guy and I think it would be dorky of me to go bowling with you!
So I'm just trying to work out where this came from and if it's salvageable.. we've texted everyday, except yesterday, since setting the date, There's been no points in our conversations where I thought I had said something wrong or that she got upset (not even in our original POF convo) and it really has just come out of nowhere.
I'm not hanging myself up on this girl (I've got another date lined up tonight and one on the w/e) but it has been fun talking to her so would be nice to get her out. I'm also not going to reply until after work tonight.
My first thought is to reply with something like:
Haha I never said you could call it a date
.. actually, I got nothin after that lol
Any ideas on this one?