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Thread: Is she into me?

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    Default Is she into me?

    I am new here, and I have a question about a girl I am recently kind of seeing.

    So I met her in my university, and I made the mistake of asking her out to quickly. She responded that she isn't "looking for dating" right now . I like a sane man, moved on.

    Then suddenly she starts talking to me so much more both in person and keeps inviting me to parties and stuff with her. Even when I attempt to ask her out, she just diverts it by saying oh lets go to a bar or something.

    So do I have a chance with her or not? or am in the friend zone if that even exists?

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    Default Re: Is she into me?

    It's really hard to tell without more details, but you need to be bold, confident & flirty to stay out of the friend zone.

    And asking a girl out BEFORE you've built attraction is risky. That's a mistake we all make early on.
    Her defenses are up & you're more likely to face resistance if you go for the "date" right away.

    However; if she's inviting you to the bar, you're still in the game. Just ramp up your flirting & playfulness.

    Don't be cocky, but definitely learn how to tease/banter/razz her. Girls love that kind of stuff. It expresses a fun personality, as well as confidence.

    Her "dating" comment was a test. You could have nipped it in the bud by saying something like "Whoa, hang on missy, you're moving too fast. Who's talking about "dating?" I'm just digging your vibe & thought it would be fun to hang with you. You project an adventurous spirit... I like that."

    But trust me, experience comes with time & consistency.


    I would take her up on the "bar" offer sometime. Use that opportunity to build attraction & show her how you're different from the rest of the schmucks.

    The key is to relax & not be focused on the outcome.
    You have to realize that if it doesn't happen with THIS girl, there are millions of other ones out there. There is an abundance of girls "just waiting for the right guy to come along."

    And when you do....? You're golden.


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    Default Re: Is she into me?

    she just rejected you- who knows she might not be looking to date, maybe she just wants to hookup
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    Default Re: Is she into me?

    If her response is to go to a bar or something, taker her op on her offer. Take advantage of whatever opportunity a woman gives you. As T-Mal said that is your chance to build attraction while you are together, and have fun.

    Besides, the simplest way some guys start relationships is simply asking her out for a few drinks.


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