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  1. #1
    Kheaven Guest

    Default I Closed... Are we going out?

    My friend and I are having this problem since we're in high school.
    If/After we k-close, what do we do with the girl after since they automatically assume that we're going out?

    Am I able to keep running full game on other girls (not just practice on routines, which I usually do)?

    How do I deal with this and what do I do?

  2. #2
    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: I Closed... Are we going out?

    Fortunately for you, more and more girls don't believe that kissing automatically binds you to her, or her to you. If you liked the kiss, however, then continue seeing her if you still want to. Go on dates, hang out, continue escalating.

    If you don't want to be tied down just yet, then act like a guy who's fun to hang out with, not like a boyfriend. So, no gifts and touchy-feely cards and hourly texts and what not.

  3. #3
    Kheaven Guest

    Default Re: I Closed... Are we going out?

    Quote Originally Posted by culturedpearls View Post
    Fortunately for you, more and more girls don't believe that kissing automatically binds you to her, or her to you. If you liked the kiss, however, then continue seeing her if you still want to. Go on dates, hang out, continue escalating.

    If you don't want to be tied down just yet, then act like a guy who's fun to hang out with, not like a boyfriend. So, no gifts and touchy-feely cards and hourly texts and what not.
    Ok, so after I close, I should only continue escalating if I want to be with her and if not I just act like a friend she kissed?

  4. #4
    Pinai Guest

    Default Re: I Closed... Are we going out?

    culturedpearls is right... Not every girl assumes you're already dating just because you kissed. But even if you manage to kiss a girl hours after meeting her, the chances are high that she will expect to be treated a little special perhaps. You can't suddenly treat her like a buddy, unless you're sure that's all she's up for. Maybe avoid talking about being exclusive as well... I don't mean you'll tell her you have another date, but do make other plans where she's not included.

  5. #5
    Kheaven Guest

    Default Re: I Closed... Are we going out?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pinai View Post
    culturedpearls is right... Not every girl assumes you're already dating just because you kissed. But even if you manage to kiss a girl hours after meeting her, the chances are high that she will expect to be treated a little special perhaps. You can't suddenly treat her like a buddy, unless you're sure that's all she's up for. Maybe avoid talking about being exclusive as well... I don't mean you'll tell her you have another date, but do make other plans where she's not included.
    Ok cool. Thanks.

    I'm going on a date this Friday so I really needed to know how to deal with it since I'm hanging out with another lady friend on Saturday.

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    Default Re: I Closed... Are we going out?

    When you meet the women and start building comfort, make sure to drop regular subtle hints that you are seeing other women. If you don't sell it like it in an exclusive relationship, it shouldn't be a problem.

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    Kheaven Guest

    Default Re: I Closed... Are we going out?

    Quote Originally Posted by gunsnglory View Post
    When you meet the women and start building comfort, make sure to drop regular subtle hints that you are seeing other women. If you don't sell it like it in an exclusive relationship, it shouldn't be a problem.
    How do you expect I do that?

    Just mention something that I had done with another woman?


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