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    Default So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    On FB what do you do? When I invited her to my last tattoo she said "stop messaging me" so I did. She also said "I don't know who you are". Then a couple of weeks later she accepted my friend request. I haven't said anything since but I might re-engage later on when it winds down this fall. Any chance? Maybe I am just overthinking it or maybe she likes my tatt projects.
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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    Some tips I found online. Hope this helps:
    When she posts a new photo, video or status update that you like, comment on it with a funny or positive message. Don’t be negative or too try hard, it will piss her off.
    Keep doing this for about 3 weeks, so she becomes familiar with you.

    After you’ve posted a few comments and liked her status updates, photos, videos etc, go ahead and message her to get the ball rolling.
    Keep it brief, ask her opinion on something, so that she will likely respond. Women just can’t resist offering advice, it’s like breathing for them.

    If she responds to every message, it means she like you… so keep it up. Each message should be short and sweet, but you should be trying to connect with her. Try to really understand what she lives for, how she feels, and who she really is. Go with that goal and your conversations will be more interesting and connected.


    Never rush meeting with her, it should be at least a month and multiple messages before you should arrange meeting in person. Sometimes even longer, depending how many messages you’ve sent and how responsive she is.

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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    ^^^ that shits creepy. Please don't do that. If you want to message her you need to do it upfront. Don't be the creeper liking her posts from the background.
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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    ^^^ that shits creepy. Please don't do that. If you want to message her you need to do it upfront. Don't be the creeper liking her posts from the background.
    Exactly.
    I'm not precisely well versed on this matters, but even I know that sh*t's creepy.

    From what you said it seems like you invited her to early in the conversation, try to build more comfort before inviting her to do something.

    On an unrelated note: is it common where you guys live to invite girls to watch how you get tatooed? Not the first time I read that and I'm intrigued.

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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    Quote Originally Posted by Shark1804 View Post

    On an unrelated note: is it common where you guys live to invite girls to watch how you get tatooed? Not the first time I read that and I'm intrigued.

    I lol'd after reading this.

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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    He'll change the venue once he runs out of space on his body.

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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    Delete her. I wouldn't even bother with a girl who writes 'I don't know you' or 'stop messaging me'.

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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    Quote Originally Posted by Shark1804 View Post
    Exactly.
    I'm not precisely well versed on this matters, but even I know that sh*t's creepy.

    From what you said it seems like you invited her to early in the conversation, try to build more comfort before inviting her to do something.

    On an unrelated note: is it common where you guys live to invite girls to watch how you get tatooed? Not the first time I read that and I'm intrigued.
    LOL, no! I got tattooed for women as we ALL know. I am up to 4 and stopping at about 8. We are just working on finishing my sleeve. Once we finish my legendary sunset next month I will look friggin awesome! My artist would not stop saying "cool, cool, cool". He was showing off our project and we were both like OMG! Still not sexy yet but getting there.

    I keep inviting them to my tattoo dates and one almost accepted, a 10. Overall I was sick of hearing how guys with tatts are hot. My artist has his like whole body I am just doing my upper body on the right side. I don't really care about this chick but I will contact my Oneitis.
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    Default Re: So if a girl rejects you then adds you...

    I just.......lol

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