Hello, I'm new here but I already read the book The Game a while ago but didn't got serious since I'm not that ready. I think I need it now because I'm on the verge of a falling LDR.
Let me tell you about my story.
My girl is lively, sweet, caring, always in the mood for fark when were together. We are already in our 2nd year.
That only last for a year before my family moved here in canada. Were 15 hours plane away from each other. When I was still with her back in my hometown, I'm still in control and pretty much everything, I initiate sext, I plan our dates. She's always the one calling me. As time goes by, the problems started to came in. We talk about our day and she wants me to be always talking to her for emotional support.
The problem is, as a man, sext become less and less interesting for her, until to the point that I can't talk about it with her during daytime there, and only night, she got really not into it, and I always initiate, anddd it only last a few minutes before she start to head back to emotional talk. We got to hang out when I gone to visit her 11 months being in ldr. She's still the same, except she now beats me in bed, she got more moves, got more hungry, to the point that I can't keep up. (Note I didn't have sex for 10 months).
Now, she's out of control, and we only chat on facebook. I call her sometimes. She's very emotional now and always talking about me not giving any effort, but I do since I call her, give her time, etc. She is trying to gain control of our relationship, and I become aware of her shit test. We broke up but I manage to get her back. She's not the type to cheat, considering she's close with my mother, but what do I know I'm no expert. After remembering the game book, I immediately become aware and I manage to regain control. Note, I don't have full control now and I don't know what to do.
Pardon for the long post, but I really want to elaborate it. What should I do? Do you think she has a Alpha source their and just keeping me for emotional support?
Also I want to start acquiring information on how to keep this ldr if possible, or if I need to end it. I think she still loves me, but Idk. Thanks for reading this looong post.