Alright guys, I'm running into a kind of sticking point that maybe you can help me out with. As some of you may know, I go for the older ladies. Due to POF not allowing an age difference of more than +/- 14 years of people messaging people, this doesn't allow me to search for many of the girls that I am attracted to. In the past, I opened them like any other girl. I get their number, I start texting them and then either over text or when I first call them, I confess. At this point, they're already attracted so although they are mad, I can still keep things going and then usually f-close within a week.
BUT, I really don't like the lying. I experimented with putting "My actual age is (early 20's) on my profile..." but although women would still be attracted to me, they would tell me they were no longer interested after viewing my profile but they were flattered. Does anyone know of a better way to go about this that doesn't involve deceit?