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Thread: Lying About My Age on POF

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    Default Lying About My Age on POF

    Alright guys, I'm running into a kind of sticking point that maybe you can help me out with. As some of you may know, I go for the older ladies. Due to POF not allowing an age difference of more than +/- 14 years of people messaging people, this doesn't allow me to search for many of the girls that I am attracted to. In the past, I opened them like any other girl. I get their number, I start texting them and then either over text or when I first call them, I confess. At this point, they're already attracted so although they are mad, I can still keep things going and then usually f-close within a week.

    BUT, I really don't like the lying. I experimented with putting "My actual age is (early 20's) on my profile..." but although women would still be attracted to me, they would tell me they were no longer interested after viewing my profile but they were flattered. Does anyone know of a better way to go about this that doesn't involve deceit?

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    Default Re: Lying About My Age on POF

    Bump...I know someone has come up with a method for this and I'm just looking to learn.

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    Default Re: Lying About My Age on POF

    It's all in your head. It's not going to bother them. Don't let it bother you. Women are drawn to energy more than age.
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    Default Re: Lying About My Age on POF

    Looks like you done enough to know the results of both telling the truth and lieing about it. It's a pretty straight forward thing so I'm not sure how you can not suffer the results of showing your true age or from lieing about it. Unless you just become celibate for a few years until you reached the real age.

    This may be a "ends justify the means" kind of thing. And you already know that they won't even take the time to get to know you if they know your age. But I understand you may feel guilty or even weak, feeling like you have to lie about that than to just be the truthful honest man you know you are.

    Why not try dating women your own age. I'm sure you have reasons for older women. Such as they play less games. But they can be just as immature as a woman in her early 20s. If you like older women cause they're easier then you should take the idea of younger women as a challenge. Push your limits and your skill. Don't just settle on older women cause they're easier if that is your reasoning.

    In my experience, they are alot of fun, but they are easier and I understand why guys don't want to "waste their time" with younger women. But women in their 20s is where it's at. Even though they can play games some things are easier with younger women. Like they believe more in fate, destiny, and love at first sight. Young passion. There's nothing like it. Enjoy these years with women your own age, I say.
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    Default Re: Lying About My Age on POF

    Age is not the problem. The problem is lying about your insecurities instead of embracing them. Change your perspective. Try meeting the women in person instead of online. Maybe that will help focus you to where you wanna be
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Lying About My Age on POF

    I advise you be more honest. Guys older than you have f-closed women as young as 19. Women usually won't make age an issue unless you do. Bottom line if you lie about your age than woman will think that if you have to lie about it then it must be an issue.


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