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Thread: POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

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    Default POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

    Often you'll find a girl who has nothing written in her profile (or not much). I recently have been running a cold reading on these girls as an opener. Tell me what you think:

    "I came across your profile and I was disappointed when I saw there was nothing to read about you. But - as it turns out - I didn't need it. Your pictures say it all: You enjoy the outdoors and the water, you're a short girl, but you have a spicy personality, you're the life of the party and the excitement in your social group, you're mostly extroverted and love attention.

    Although ... you do that fish thing with your lips that every girl does in their pictures, I can look over that. Your eyes are full of energy and I feel like you could keep up with a good conversation."


    I feel like it may be missing something though... thoughts?

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    Default Re: POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

    I really like this mate!!

    "You enjoy the outdoors and the water"
    I don't know that you need this part, if her photos are of outdoor water activities, then it's pretty obvious. It's not going to hurt you but it's kinda like "well der, that's why I put those photos up" lol

    I'm a fan of the "your eyes" approach when doing cold reads (I posted a convo yesterday using one of T-Mal's openers that uses the same approach - Finally tried a "canned" opener and the results may not shock you..) I don't know how to post links yet.

    "Your eyes totally give you away . You're a short girl, but you have a spicy personality, blah blah blah"

    Although ... you do that fish thing with your lips that every girl does in their pictures <-- this is ok, it just needs a better finish. Get rid of "I can look over that"!! You've displayed your standards and then instantly dropped them in a pretty weak way. Maybe finish with something like "let's hope you do better with conversation" or "it's a good thing I look for a quality personality"

    "You did, however, lose a whole bunch of cool points for your "invisible bowl of spaghetti face", but it did kinda make me smile just a little so I'm willing to give you a chance to redeem yourself lol "

    I don't want to write it for you, but the best way for me to help is to give examples lol

    All in all though, I like it! Be sure to post back results and keep us updated.

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    Default Re: POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

    So ... what happens if you fail the cold read? I've done a similar opener to this one on a few girls ... this is one of the responses:

    "That was so far from being correct on even the most minute level you simply have no idea."

    Is there a way to recover? Is this a b!tch test? Should i try to convince her that these things are actually true of her? How do I hold frame here?

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    Default Re: POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

    Too long. She couldn't be bothered to put any time into her profile why would you be bothered to right such a long message.

    My rule for online dating is that if a woman does anything in her profile that would prevent her from messaging me if I did the same thing in my profile then I won't message them.

    For instance, in this case she didn't fill out her profile. If you didn't fill out your profile she'd never message you/respond to you. So don't message her. She's not worth it.

    Learn to have a little self-respect guys.
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    Default Re: POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

    Also, you can't "fail a cold read" if you're doing it right. Because, with a cold read you should be saying things that a) you know are true, b) are universally true, or c) is something that everyone wants to think about themselves.

    Girls eat up things like:

    "On the outside you play the good girl, but I know there's a little troublemaker inside you!" (this is true for 95% of women)

    "I bet you like a good adventure" (Women are sheep in the way they attract to certain things, the word "adventure" being one of them)

    "The moment I saw you I knew that I'd founds someone who shares my enthusiasm for travelling." (refer to the sheeple comment above)

    If you're getting told that you're cold reads are way off base, then it's because they're too specific. How a cold read works is that you start with a shotgun to strike a big target. Once you have some more information you narrow down the specificity and start using more precise reads.
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    Default Re: POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Also, you can't "fail a cold read" if you're doing it right. Because, with a cold read you should be saying things that a) you know are true, b) are universally true, or c) is something that everyone wants to think about themselves.

    Girls eat up things like:

    "On the outside you play the good girl, but I know there's a little troublemaker inside you!" (this is true for 95% of women)

    "I bet you like a good adventure" (Women are sheep in the way they attract to certain things, the word "adventure" being one of them)

    "The moment I saw you I knew that I'd founds someone who shares my enthusiasm for travelling." (refer to the sheeple comment above)

    If you're getting told that you're cold reads are way off base, then it's because they're too specific. How a cold read works is that you start with a shotgun to strike a big target. Once you have some more information you narrow down the specificity and start using more precise reads.
    Thanks for all of your insight, Duke!

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    Default Re: POF Opener For A Girl With Little To No Profile Info

    Its late, I edited yours to cater to mine and sent this.... against my better judgment but it will be fun to see if I get a reply. We both liked each other on OKC so its a start. Hope you don't mind me reusing most of it.

    You didn't write anything but lets see if I can figure you out based on your pics: you love fashion, being photographed and I would say the club scene too though you are slowly getting tired of it. You do have a spicy personality, and it adds excitement to your group of friends, you're mostly extroverted and love attention.
    A bit too "sassy" but I can handle it since your eyes are full of energy and I feel like you could keep up with a good conversation."


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