dude the only thing you did wrong was tell her this on facebook instead of real life. you took a risk and put your BALLS on the line and that's a good thing. most people would settle for friends with a girl they're attracted too and never show their sexual interest wondering "what if". you gotta ask yourself do you want to have 30 female friends or have 3 girls out of that 30 that your fucking?.DONT APOLOGIZE for showing that you're sexually interested in her. DONT APOLOGIZE for wanting to know her on a deeper level. DONT APOLOGIZE for taking a RISK. ,start taking RISKS and living life on the edge. girls will RESPECT you more when you do this.YOU took a big step into bettering your life and thats something to be proud about.