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    Default "I'll consider it" to Fark Buddy offer

    Hi all,

    So based on a previous post, I described how I lost out on all 3 women I was dating at the same time. Well I basically felt there was nothing to lose, and told one of them that since we are clearly attracted to each other (made out heavily on all 3 dates we had), but don't see a future together, that we could still hang out without extra worries or baggage.

    Long story short, she replies with "It's not an ideal situation. We live far from each other and live with our parents." To which my reply was that I practically live down the street from her at my cousin's house (I'm there all the time and always have privacy). So it's not much of an issue at all.

    She then replied "I'll consider it". Any ideas on how to reply to get her to agree to be fark buddies? And is this a bull response? Thanks

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    Default Re: "I'll consider it" to Fark Buddy offer

    I think it pretty much means yes.

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    Default Re: "I'll consider it" to Fark Buddy offer

    Since you brought it up you should not have been looking for approval but signs of interests. Do not ever bring it up again. Just hit her up when you're looking for action and say "wanna hang out?" These days its vauge enough for people to know what that means as well has gives other friends the idea that she's got nothing to worry about in regards to being shamed for having sex so freely. So since you have this oppurtunity NEVER leas her to question the idea od FWB if thats what you want. Always be clear with intent but don't kill what you have by ruining the mood or talking too much unless--you have a strong sense of character to recover from that confidently and can maintain not only your frame but their frame of mind too.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: "I'll consider it" to Fark Buddy offer

    In the future don't bring up the fark buddy talk. All you need to do is invite her out and bang her. Also, you should have already banged this girl. If you did you WOULD be fark buddies with her now. If you are heavily making out with a girl you can sleep with her. Read this so in the future you make it happen the first or second date. http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...rough-lmr.html

    I'm not sure if her response is bull. She didn't straight out reject the idea but I wouldn't be too thrilled with her response. It could be a yes or a no. You will find out when you try and hang out with her.

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    Default Re: "I'll consider it" to Fark Buddy offer

    Thanks for the insight! I suppose I was just trying to explain to her that the obstacles she suggested weren't issues at all. But I agree that from this point on, all communication will be to "meet up" with no pressure.

    As it stands now I didn't reply as I felt her "I'll consider it" slightly condescending and said with the frame of mind that she expects me to jump through hoops to get her. Which is NOT what I want OR need. I'm positive that there's sexual attraction there, so I shouldn't be proving myself for her to fool around with me. I've already done so. But you're right... Should have been done by now. No excuses. It's funny cause I told myself, one more date and if it doesn't go anywhere, I'm out.

    So in the end, should I just leave the "I'll consider it" unanswered?

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    Default Re: "I'll consider it" to Fark Buddy offer

    Her saying 'ill consider it' is not a question. You do not need to address it. Move on live your life. When you want some action ask her to hang out. When she's over do something fun that people do when isolated and start escalating. If she resists beyond here then cut your losses and move on. You dont have to tell her anything but she should get the picture.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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