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    Default Ex GF still loves me...but also is interested in dating a girl?

    Hey guys, the title says it all really.

    My most recent gf went away and we broke up (her initiation), but we stayed in touch while she was there. She called a lot when she first got to there, saying she loved me and being very nice, but over the course of the month she was there she pulled away a little. I visited her and had a great time, and we were very close and had a great time. Then, when I went to pick her up she says she developed intimate feelings for a girl there, and she still loves me.

    My questions?
    1) What the fark do you do in this situation? If she was interested in a guy then it's kind of like, "ok then! I'm done here." but it's a girl

    and 2) Is this a serious thing? Or is this something recovering people do?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Ex GF still loves me...but also is interested in dating a girl?

    Why didnt you ask her these things?

    Let her figure out what she wants. You still need to improve your level of attraction if she's not jumping on you. If you can't ignore it then my recommendation is to be unpredictable. Go the opposite route most guys would say in her life. Be cocky funny but still attentive and see about how she reacts to you escalating.

    But realistically it sounds like you're being friendzoned. I'd say otherwise IF you posted a conversation with details that highlight her curiosity--but i don't think there's much to grab at here. If you want her still... Then i'd suggest being in the frame of understanding, light teasing while pushing the idea that she 's bisexual. Maybe convince her of a 3 way
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Ex GF still loves me...but also is interested in dating a girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Why didnt you ask her these things?

    Let her figure out what she wants. You still need to improve your level of attraction if she's not jumping on you. If you can't ignore it then my recommendation is to be unpredictable. Go the opposite route most guys would say in her life. Be cocky funny but still attentive and see about how she reacts to you escalating.

    But realistically it sounds like you're being friendzoned. I'd say otherwise IF you posted a conversation with details that highlight her curiosity--but i don't think there's much to grab at here. If you want her still... Then i'd suggest being in the frame of understanding, light teasing while pushing the idea that she 's bisexual. Maybe convince her of a 3 way
    Thanks @artandale. I want to comment to get your interpretation, and ask a couple questions...The last bold section is by far the most important if you are pressed for time

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    Default Re: Ex GF still loves me...but also is interested in dating a girl?

    lol back in the day i had this girlfriend and she got a girlfriend while i was dating her (with my permission) and they set up a threesome with me- my first threesome

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    Default Re: Ex GF still loves me...but also is interested in dating a girl?

    You can make this work for or against you it really depends on what you want. As for it being serious or not... I personally dont think it matters. What matters is honesty. She was honest. That in my book allows me to trust and continue. What allows you to trust and continue?
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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