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    Default Critique my interaction-tinder

    SO I have provided you with some of the convo that I went nowhere with. See if you can spot any obvious mistakes I have. Hopefully by looking at these conversations you can pick up something useful for yourself too. I have actually used a lot of materials from different places in it. Sorry it's incredibly long but there are lines you might want to steal.

    Also here my stats for tinder:
    5 # close (this is actually not bad cause it was 5/5 attempt)
    1 fark close
    1 kiss
    in 4 months
    (I must admit it's slightly disappointing) I prefer in field game but no harm improving online game.


    Here you go:

    - no. closed- I speculate did something wrong at the end- This is a good representation of what typically happens in my tinder game- Really really appreciate people's comments

    Me:You seem like type of girl who's last words will be hold my beer watch this Credit to xxxx
    Her:Haha why do you say that?
    Me:Is that a trick question I might be wrong but answering them straight away put you in a bad position- there might be more hoops to jump
    Her:Oh not at all, it was because you're spot on with that Have tried this opener on 100 people and they all say something similar- very good opener, need to analyse it for possibly replicating it in another form-
    Me: I tell you if you tell me why you call yourself a 7/10 so this worked because I actually found something from her tinder profile (ref. 7/10) in addition to providing her with hoops to jump through
    Her:I couldn't set the standards too high, puts a lotta pressure on me ya know? Haha
    Me:Throwing a lot of baggage on yourself, eh One thing I must say is that she would respond right after my msgs- I didn't do the same which was attractive
    Her:Haha so you have to tell me
    Her: About why you said that about me 2 msg in a row = ioi
    Me:Like I promised. It's about the way you look at the camera in your pics. I get this vibe that you think 'you have no idea what am gonna do next.' honestly just bs ing her at this point-there is no correct ans.
    Her:Is that good 2nd ioi
    Me:Yh. What do you think?
    Her:Hah I hava a good feeling it is kinda similar to an ioi
    Meont' get big in your head though
    Her:So it's just slightly good but not awesome?
    Me:You might be correct in that sense. So, what do you have got going for you beside that. I didn't answer her question again- to me that was a trap- I could have killed the convo with ans. it
    Her:so I produce my own music and I go to college hah what about you
    Me:No shit. That's convenient. You can listen to your own music. Your roommate probs hates your for that though. BS but building comfort
    Her:Haha she gets used to it , you have anything interesting about you.
    Me:She probably has to but yh very considerate of you. I have aquired the ability to talk to animals.
    Her: How incredible! must be annoying for your roommate too
    Me: Don't have one maybe that's why

    She didn't respond
    I waited a day

    Me: Are you always this experessive and energetic or you just nervous
    Her:Haha maybe I usuallly live my life really nervous, is it coming off as energetic?
    Me:That's great. Thanks for sharing.
    Her:You seem like a really creative person, art major? Where the fark did that come from
    Me:That momemnt when can't tell if someone on the virual world being sarcastic or not.
    Her:Sorry next time I'll note my sarcasm with a , would that be better she's defintely inerested cause she could say fark off
    Me:Meh. It's better done when you are talking to someone in person.

    no response
    I waited 9 days this time

    Me: You prob agree to disagree
    Her: Oh hey there and yea good idea, I wasn't sure how to respond to that, thanks for helping [Was it my fault?? :shock:]
    Me:Oh don't be silly you can do better than that
    Her:So much faith in me
    Me:Haha. Text me, it's easier.
    Her: ok fine, what's your no?
    Me: 99999 save that it's an important one.
    Her:999999, if you wanna text me too[ I am thinking she's dumb so I didn't text her]

    after a few hours she texted me,
    should I make the first move

    I will post my text game with her later.

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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    I like your opening tinder text, it's unique and funny. Don't spend too much time texting on Tinder. Go for the number within a few texts to set up an activity and then text her on her phone immediately afterward so she knows who you are.
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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    Yes. Make a move. There's nothing stopping you from an F-Close. If she actually is dumb, it's okay. Who cares? F-Close her anyway. No one says you have to marry her.

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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    I like your opening tinder text, it's unique and funny. Don't spend too much time texting on Tinder. Go for the number within a few texts to set up an activity and then text her on her phone immediately afterward so she knows who you are.
    What are your strategies in calibrating when it's good to take the no. I wait for obvious IOIs- by obvious I mean OBVIOUS.

    How many texts would you say is enough to build attraction. It's really hard to tell for me now. In last two days I did 3 txts and asked for no - they just ignored it.

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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    Quote Originally Posted by Maverick1027 View Post
    Yes. Make a move. There's nothing stopping you from an F-Close. If she actually is dumb, it's okay. Who cares? F-Close her anyway. No one says you have to marry her.
    It might have been a confusion. Don't get me wrong I don't care if she's dumb or not but just wanted someone to criticize my interaction. I feel like I don't build enough attraction/dhv.

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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    Quote Originally Posted by ice_blunt View Post
    It might have been a confusion. Don't get me wrong I don't care if she's dumb or not but just wanted someone to criticize my interaction. I feel like I don't build enough attraction/dhv.
    I see. Well, you did good if she is the one texting you first. That means she is definitely interested. Keep playing your game. Good luck. Keep us posted.

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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    Quote Originally Posted by ice_blunt View Post
    What are your strategies in calibrating when it's good to take the no. I wait for obvious IOIs- by obvious I mean OBVIOUS.

    How many texts would you say is enough to build attraction. It's really hard to tell for me now. In last two days I did 3 txts and asked for no - they just ignored it.
    You just have to feel it out. Keep it light and playful and send short simple texts. Calibrate based on how much she is investing and information she is providing. Once you have enough investment, ask her what are her plans tonight or what her schedule is like and then see if she agrees on an activity then go for the number and solve logistics over text.
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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    Like the idea of finding an activity then exchanging numbers-I'm gonna try that. It sounds like a better strategy than just asking for her number for no mentioned reason.

    I see. Well, you did good if she is the one texting you first. That means she is definitely interested. Keep playing your game. Good luck. Keep us posted.

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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    Yes, I usually talk about drinks. But recently, I've been messaging a ton of chicks direct Facebook.com/conquertinder to see a ton of my messages.

    My Tinder stats:
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    Dates: 30+
    Full closes this month from Tinder: 5
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    Default Re: Critique my interaction-tinder

    So my thoughts on your tinder routines:

    So your idea of fun profile picture is pure genius.. I am gonna try it out.
    As for being silly and dorky, that's a tricky place you step into. Being funny a little bit is probably good but comedians don't get laid all the time. You suggest not playing it cool because girls ratio is screwed up. Even though that might be true, girls would prefer PUA's over AFC's. That's the impression I got in my encounters but definitely open to hear other people's opinions.
    I like the concept of "number element" that you discussed. As you mentioned you can save time by just swiping right for everyone and deciding how attractive she is later on. I've been doing that for ages and glad you mentioned it too.
    What you said about not going down the same rejection path twice is smart. It just makes sense not to say the exact words that got you rejected. Why bringing back the past when it's not necessary.
    Also, 'space and ?' is unique in a sense and probably that's why you get more response for that. I am gonna try it out too. However, asking a girl's schedule or asking for permission to meet them is a NO-NO, at least in my game.


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