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    Default How long do you wait after unanswered text?

    Made out with a girl drunk on Saturday and had a quick text catch up Sunday. I had the last word -- something about how I need to borrow her sunglasses again because I'm going to Florida -- which got no response. It is now Tuesday and I think this brings up an interesting question.

    If one is looking to prolong a thing with a girl, how long should you wait to reach them after they don't respond? Clearly you don't want to seem desperate, but a hot girl likely has many guys going after her. This is an HB9 who broke up with her boyfriend a week or two ago (another plot thickener).

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    Default Re: How long do you wait after unanswered text?

    Unless you have planned date with somebody and, and you were the last person to text and you want to confirm the date beforehand, you can double text a few hours before the date. Otherwise, I usually wait 2 weeks and send a ping text like, "How's your day ?"
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    Default Re: How long do you wait after unanswered text?

    I used to well hang on every word. Now my texting game is slowly going platinum. Like for instance the chick from work texted me yesterday because I pulled away and she was very flirty when I came back and giving me tons of validation when I was ready to up and give up on her. Then when I do run my texting hookup/dating opener I am garnering more and more validation than ever. It is slowly getting there but after having 4 work GF's I slowed it down to a crawl and have only 1 new work GF and 1 GF from the Club I am gaming. I used to worry about responses but then realized texting girls everyday multiple times a day is bad mojo and no wonder I was getting rejected so quickly.


    Now my theory is to only use the phone for seeing the girl like my dating/hookup method and if I feel it necessary bring up a joke text. My joke text the other day worked too by the way but I only do this if it ties our previous interaction and feel no fear of rejection. If I feel any anxiety then I just plain will ignore them till the date and slowly work my way to comfort. Not much chance to try this out but so far it is working like a charm.

    Basically I am texting less and getting more, a lot more validation. Now I usually lose it in 3 days after the meet due to over-pursuing but now I just string them along according to my own whims. Seems to be working wonders and still no rejection from these two. Plus my idea is if you say nothing nothing bad can happen so I only say something to get something and then disappear till I want something else. This is rather aloof but it works for me.
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    Default Re: How long do you wait after unanswered text?

    Don't worry if a girl doesn't always reply. Dont hang too much on it. Just continue to be fun and try engage her or meet up with her. Ive forgotten to message girls myself at times too or just get busy and drop off the radar. This is why its always good to keep a few in the pipeline. Its like an energy grid.

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    Default Re: How long do you wait after unanswered text?

    text her the next day

    just say something like
    "hey rockstarr- how is your thursday ?"

    if that doesnt get a response nothing will

    yes the space between the thursday and question mark for a higher response
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    Default Re: How long do you wait after unanswered text?

    ehh it depends on what type of girl it is..this chick is hot and probably has 6-7 other guys texting her so play the same game..your best is to not just rely on her, have 2-3 other girls set up and be texting them..easier said than done but it helps keep your mind off that one chick..


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