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    Default First Date cheapo ?

    A rule or guideline many PUAs follow is to not pay for a girl BEFORE you sleep with her.
    after sleeping with her you can.

    so my question is how do you get your date to pay her share without coming off as cheap or anything else negative.


    Example: say you take a girl for a fun date to play mini-golf. You reach the admission desk (or whatever the fk its called),
    leading the way, what would you say?

    The girl im going out with seems like a confident goodlooking girl who works at a designer retail store.. who expects guys to pay for her (based on my reads).

    Just wondering what the Pros would do

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    Default Re: First Date cheapo ?

    If you invited her out then you should pay, and not ask her to pay. You could just say something like "I'll get the first round." If she asks you out, and insists on paying, then our problem is solved.

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    Default Re: First Date cheapo ?

    Don't take a girl to mini golf on a first date, unless it's a group thing - where everybody would pay seperately anyway - and then it's not really a date.

    I almost always meet for a drink in the evening. I don't have to pay much if I cover her drink (most girls don't drink much anyway, especially on a date). For me the key is always conversation and Kino. If that is going well food actually gets in the way. If I stick around and we're hungry I usually just order some bar snacks or light food that doesn't interfere with the conversation or cost much. Or often I will use a time constraint. 'Dinner? Oh I can't stay out long, I need to do some other things'. This gets them begging to meet up a second time.

    I usually pay first date. I like chivalry. Often girls will instigate the second date and pay for that if the 1st date is good. Some girls pay first date without even asking. It's not a big issue really. There's no free lunch in the fullness of time with women.

    I have a low patience for girls wanting to bring a friend along though. I will only meet a girl with a friend and pay if I'm really interested and still then I try not to spend much. Last week I went on a date...shortly before meeting she asked if she could bring a friend...I wasn't 100% on this girl but for some reason I said fine. During the evening I felt this horrible expectation they were using me and I didn't completely click with this girl - she was playing with her phone a lot. When the bill came I asked the waiter to split it. The girls were both a little suprised I think, but I am not a bank and I didn't really feel a strong attraction to her so... bad luck, bye bye!

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    Default Re: First Date cheapo ?

    i am the same I tend to pay. the trick is not to act as she owns you something for buying her a meal. this easier sad then done i guess. if you ever find yourself resentful forwards a girl you spent money on and nothing developed don't pay for the first date.
    when the bill comes just give it to her and say something like you are clearly the nerd here on the table be a doll and split the bill for us.

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    Default Re: First Date cheapo ?

    Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two people. Online dating is the most available source to meet the people.

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