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Thread: I don't know what to make of this reply...

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    Default I don't know what to make of this reply...

    "Hahaha. Amazing. Thanks for the message. It really made my day!"

    So I've got an opener routine that's obviously funny and charming, but I'm seeing this reply an AWFUL lot. I honestly don't know if this reply means "Lets have a conversation" or "thanks for the momentary distraction, but now we're done." I know this seems dumb but how do I transition out of this answer? I'm great when they contextually play along with the opener, but this I don't know what to do with.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to make of this reply...

    What exactly do you want to gain from the text you sent? Like is it a ping text, tease, conversation starter? If you keep getting the same response when you send the text and that's not what you're looking for then edit the text and fix it in a way where it'll give you the right response. ( also some people have different ways of interpreting texts, take that into consideration too. The text you want to be funny may make others see you as a jerk. It's not just one size fits all sometimes.)
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    Default Re: I don't know what to make of this reply...

    That reply means "Let's have a conversation." Now, some women are smart enough to actually reply back with something that will start a conversation, others expect you to lead the conversation (and you should ...). This is a response, and a response (whether good or bad) is ALWAYS worth pursuing, in my opinion. Continue the conversation. Lead it to where you want it to go. She thanked you and seems happy in a situation where she could have just ignored you all together. You have to build more attraction now.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to make of this reply...

    She's definitely waiting for you to respond & lead the interaction.
    You caught her interest.

    Girls won't reply if they're NOT interested... But when they DO, then they're giving you a shot.


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    Default Re: I don't know what to make of this reply...

    One thing to note is that whatever you sent her was easily summed upwith one response . Its good and bad. Good that you can get a response like this. Personally i think its bad because you created a conversation that immediately has to switch directions. Most guys i've noticed starting out freeze on transitions because they focus so heavily on openers that they forget how to just talk and be yourself. Its really only bad if you're terrible at conversing. Someone with great social skills would switch subjects and just go from there. But if you're still wondering if this is good or bad then your perception is bad because you're stuck in the structure of the conversation instead of playing ball with the conversation bouncing back and forth playfully.

    Keep being interesting with her and talk about what you want to talk about. But with text i wouldnt try to have long drawn conversations via text unless you both are love struck and want each other like lovers do. Move things towards a meet up when you're at a happy point in the conversation.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to make of this reply...

    What is the opener you use? You just want to keep it light and playful and move the thread to set up a date and get the number ASAP.
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    Default Re: I don't know what to make of this reply...

    When she said 'You really made my day' you could have trumped it by saying 'Oh I can make your day even better'. She will write 'how?' or 'show me' or 'ok?' and then you ask her out for a date. You already know she is in a good mood so take advantage of it and try meet her that very same day. Women love to be whisked off their feet by a confident guy. She will likely say yes unless she has other genuine plans, in which case you persistently organise another day relatively soon. If she consistently flakes only then you know for sure it's "thanks for the momentary distraction, but now we're done."

    If you have only just started writing and need more attraction then a simple wink symbol is enough of a response and then go off onto other tangents of conversation. You don't have to send jokes everytime and make them laugh, balance yourself to show contrasts - that you have depth as a person. But in general if a girl writes something positive like that jump on it. As Maverick said ANY response is worth pursuing whether good or bad.

    If you can make a girl respond you can make her smile. If you make her smile you can make her laugh. If you make her laugh you can make her happy. If you make her happy you can get her on a date. If she comes on a date you can kiss her. If you can kiss her you can get her into bed...so on and so forth.


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