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    Default Txting basics: How do you end your conversations?

    I met this girl on pof and we've been hitting it off texting back and forth a bit. She's displaying tons of ioi's. I was just wondering, when you're having conversations with a girl everyday, how do you break away to get on with your day?

    In all of our conversations she's been the last to reply, while I just leave it open with no formal closing or "talk to you later".

    For example, I initiated a brief conversation with her earlier today. We had a fun flirty exchange for a few minutes, ending with her saying, "You're cute and funny. "
    After she sent that text I became preoccupied for several hours and haven't responded. What do you guys think about this habit? It feels kinda odd, but I just dont see a need for formal ttyl's. Although I'm starting to feel like if I drop off for hours routinely, maybe she will get tired of texting me. You can see I have a case of oneitis with this girl.

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    Default Re: Txting basics: How do you end your conversations?

    Just reply when you can.
    It's not as complicated as you think.


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    Default Re: Txting basics: How do you end your conversations?

    T-MAL, I'm in the process of reading all your guides. They are brilliant!

    I bet you can give me an idea of how often you normally should text a girl without burning each other out. Personally, I feel like chatting a couple times a week is ideal. However, she doesn't last a day of NC before initiating.

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    Default Re: Txting basics: How do you end your conversations?

    Text every day. (Unless there's some legitimate reason you can't)
    If the girl doesn't reciprocate, then you haven't built enough attraction.

    The more you do it, the better you get.
    And the better you get, the more natural it becomes.



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    Default Re: Txting basics: How do you end your conversations?

    Thanks dude. Speaking of building attraction, from reading your posts it seems in the early stages your focus should be solely on flirting, innuendos, Push-Pull, being fun, playful and making her laugh.

    This was huge in opening my eyes to a whole new world.
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...onnection.html
    First of all, save "conversations" for a later time...
    The ONLY thing you need to do in the very beginning is FLIRT. Period.
    "Attraction" will get you much further along than rapport, in the beginning stages.
    The mistake I used to make was forgetting about the significance of flirting early on and saving talk about common interests for later. I always wondered why I would run out of things to say or why the conversations turned into 20 questions!


    When do you work on building comfort and rapport?


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