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    Default Can I get away with saying anything?

    So I was texting this girl and I wanted to show some sexual intent. I sent this to her, "You seem like the type of girl that like to get naked with guy like Warren." Warren is my name. She then sends a flurry of messages saying, I don't get down like that." And, "if that is your goal then your wasting your time." She was pretty pissed. Instead of panicking though, I remained calm and promptly sent a short message. "Don't worry I wasn't expecting anything like that from you. It's just not realistic. I'm just being flirtatious." Soon after I sent this she sent an apology saying that she was being too harsh and that it's hard for her to let her guard down. We went out to the movies the next day and I made out with her for the first time. I'm not sure if I can still seal the deal now so I mould use some advice on that, but I realized that when a girl gets mad at me I have to simply remain calm and act like it was no big deal at all. Girls expect to receive the same emotion back when they get angry at you but if you remain calm they begin to question why they are angry at you. Can someone back me up on this or correct me in some way. I am only 18 so I may be completely wrong.

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    Default Re: Can I get away with saying anything?

    It's all about your frame. YES you can get away with saying anything.

    Anytime a girl gets pissed of what I said, I just remain calm and tell her I was just kidding then divert her attention to something else depending on the situation. The key here is not to filter yourself, say anything you want and just calibrate AFTER the fact.

    Most guys get it wrong by calibrating BEFORE they say something and they end up saying nothing at all.

    Don't believe everything a girl says, it's usually just a version of the truth. They say shitty things like that to avoid being branded a "slut". So yeah as long as you stay in your frame you can seal the deal.

    Props to you though for doing that in a text message. It's really hard to do that via text probably because I hate smileys and it's hard to convey tone without them haha

    Bang away Warren, my friend.
    Hey if it works for you, it works. Who cares if someone backs it up or not.
    I'm 18 as well so I might be completely right.

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    Default Re: Can I get away with saying anything?

    You can get pretty much away with anything if you have the stronger frame and certainty. Though, you should be also be strategic with what you do and so you can move the set along more smoothly. For example, good rule of thumb is not do any sexting until you have sex with the girl. She will think that's all you want and you're not giving her any plausible deniability so she won't feel like a slut. Save the escalation until you have Isolation in person.
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    Default Re: Can I get away with saying anything?

    You can get away with saying anything as long as its not boring and you maintain your frame. Maintaining your frame is easy when you just don't give a shit about her opinion.

    There is always exceptions to the case though. Politics, religion, ABORTION...lmao.

    Just don't be boring.

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    Default Re: Can I get away with saying anything?

    Show some sexual intent from texting?? Why can't you show you sexual intent while you talk to her face to face?

    And also don't get a girl mad at you for any particular reason; you, as a man is supposed be there to make her feel good.

    Just to note: I did not mean that you should be a nice guy to please her all the way.

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    Default Re: Can I get away with saying anything?

    A better way to start sexual escalation is to simply introduce the word 'sex' or 'sexy' into conversation. Think of it like a street with lights. Keep going down the street getting green lights each time. Step by step escalate.

    Girls love to be told they are sexy so say it. If she sends you a photo say 'sexy dress' or whatever is in the photo 'sexy eyes', 'sexy hair'. Anything. Simply introducing that vocabulary into the conversation should get you the first green light because rarely will a girl dismiss it or think too much. It's a harmless compliment. If she sends you a sexy photo send one back - but dont be silly, just a photo that emphasizes your body or shirt off is fine. If she says 'sexy body' or anything like that back you are in like flyn because she is accepting you sexually and also copying your vocabulary. Then change topics like it's no big deal. Further along you can start bringing up more bolder comments based on how she is responding to you. Like in real life girls usually need to be turned on intellectually first before they will start opening up sexually so you must have built attraction and trust first. You can start saying all sorts of things 'what are you wearing?', 'you're about to sleep? Ok imagine me next to you singing songs that drift you off into nice dreams, hands gliding over your silky skin ', 'imagine me kissing your body head to toes ', 'do you like cock?' (All girls do - this is a male sh!t test). Calibrate it to the girl obviously. Princess versus slut. If they say 'why,' simply say 'I'm curious'. If they reject it say 'don't be shy...we're not in the Victorian era!'. I have noticed girls don't like to be told they are shy (even if they are). Even if they are really conservative, just keep it playful and redirect your conversation if it doesn't work. You have still seeded 'sex' into the dialogue and you probably still have a chance.

    I knew a guy who would tell girls 'I'm kinda tired.' Her: 'why?' Him: 'I've been having sex a lot lately...I need a break!'. I was kind of shocked but it would drive women mad and attracted to him. It's like he was saying it's a chore but girls could not help but be curious or want to compete in this game.

    If you ask a girl for a sexy picture and she sends it (even if its somewhat conservative) you are almost guaranteed to get laid.


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