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    Rook96 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy Trying to save an interaction from nosediving

    Met this girl at the gym, definately an HB9. Got her number from a friend. Things started off very well, we both click built comfort and attraction ( Started telling me she had handcuffs and even told me what kind of sex she was into, was acting like a real nympho around me. I loved it!).

    One day she said her friend( who she tried to claim was he lover even though we both knew she was into guys) had a death in the family and she seems a bit upset. Then she said she like some sex to cheer her up ( obviously teasing), and i played along to see where it would lead. Then I made the fatal mistake of trying to call her that night to check up on her, to be there for her when she needed someone (stupid nice guy mentality!) and when i tried to call her she wouldn't pick up the phone even though we'd just been chatting. I think that's when things went sour because ever since that night her investment hit an all time low. She takes hours to reply (before it took seconds, three in a row often) I find myself Double text with a new topic, trying hard to get attraction going ( I know I shouldn't but I know my inner game is a bit lacking), crazy crazy amounts of humor (a few things I got from this site), and even callback humor (which seems to only work for 1 or 2 texts), even freezing out for about a week at a time. The same material or tactics work well on other girls and I even have a girl crushing on me(too young for me though).

    Eventually I decided to call her and use a method I got from The Social Man( David Tian) when faced with rejection.. complete honesty ( I though it was a believability issue)and told her that I was confused because thing were going so well and now they're not, and that I was frustrated because none of what I was attempting seemed to work (there was a bit of humor here and the and tried to maintain value), also that I'm scared I wouldn't "get to explore her wonderful creative mind" and i'll regret what might have been. I then made her laugh a little bit and asked her out on a date which she agreed to, and she said she was willing to try an rekindle what we had ( maybe she said this just to get me to hang up, but she seemed to respond possitively and seemed like she wanted the date).

    Morning we had a bit of great conversation and she even apologized for being distant (said she had something going on in her life, but I think attraction was low because to my knowledge she was still talking to other people). Then mid-afternoon she went silent again. The next day I tried to maybe see if it was something that was bothering her and maybe get some comfort going by helping her through it, she said she didn't wanna talk about it but I think I pushed her for it a bit too much because she went silent again. She did reveal just a little bit and when I saw she was going silent I double texted (another silly idea, i know) and said I understand and that if she ever wanted to talk about it I would be there for her and it's been half a day since...

    Maybe I'm investing a lot into this girl (she's the hottest in my pool and I have a dance in 2 months I wanna take her to), but I do see something in her that's unique and I hope I saved it by that call I made. I know I need to go back to the screening frame, but how do I do that from where I am now? Are there better ways I can progress and ensure that date with her this week? I'd also like your views on my double texting and even Freeze Out usage. I'd also like a link that'd help me with my inner game (frame control and something to help me strengthen those frames).

    I urgently need help guys

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Trying to save an interaction from nosediving

    Don't contact her for a few days...like a mild Freeze Out. Give her a chance to be without your interaction. I have been out drinking last few nights with friends and today I had three girls message me 'are you ok? Haven't heard from you in a while?'. It was only a few days! They started initiating texts and even worrying about me.

    Do something else in your life for a bit so she is not a focus.

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    Rook96 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Trying to save an interaction from nosediving

    Thanks man! And do u have any pointers on inner game. The correct mindsets for text game

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    Rook96 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Trying to save an interaction from nosediving

    Well, I'v done the Freeze Out and things seemed to have changed again until she starts offering me her friend (Translation: my attraction do u dwindles by the day) so i'm getting pretty farking frustrated! Guys I need URGENT help with my inner game because I need to change my frames in order to sustain attraction. And please guys put in your input put because this is getting worse by the day!


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