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    Default How to bring her even closer?

    So I've been texting this girl everyday for about 20 days. I've been mostly flirting the whole time, making her laugh, being fun, escalating and doing some teasing. We have a great time. We definitely have built up a connection, but I feel like there needs to be more or I'm missing something.

    I havent replied to her since yesterday and she text me again just now showing interest. I want to bring us even closer, but dont know how or where to go from here. I mean the flirting and being funny is fun, but I want her to see me as a potential mate. I want her to feel like she can talk to me about anything.

    Obviously, we needed to have met up by now. Thats just not possible at the moment. How do I keep her with me?

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    Default Re: How to bring her even closer?

    Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee etttttttttttt uppppppp!!!!!!!!!!!! !
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How to bring her even closer?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee etttttttttttt uppppppp!!!!!!!!!!!! !
    You say you cant meet up but you can still skype or face time or something. Regardless drive everything towards meeting up or else you're never gonna really know if she's worth developing a connection with.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How to bring her even closer?

    I've found the way to develop a deeper connection is showing some vulnerability. Like "accidentally" tell about your fears of abandonment or deep trust issues. Then recover trying to change the subject finishing with the line "Omg I can't believe I just told you that. I never tell anyone about that." Then BOOM. She knows she's special to you and you can move more into deep rapport building convo.

    It's better if it's a real vulnerability. I have genuine trust issues so I just exaggerate them a bit and it's more genuine than if I talk about fear of intimacy or something that's not really me.

    Also mirror her vulnerabilities. If you show a woman you understand her world it's great rapport building and on your way to a strong connection.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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