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    Default Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    Lol!!!

    Math is one thing... Algebra is another though.


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    Smile Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    The info about the Asian men and black women makes complete sense.
    Cold hard truth indeed.

    BTW the title scares a little. It reminds of error 404!

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    Default Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    The real secret to online dating success is to stand out from everyone else.

    Make sure your profile sparks their attention so they want to know more.

    I'm just an average looking guy, and average height & weight. Nothing physically about me will catch a girls attention. So, as far as LOOKS are concerned, I can't rely on that.

    Yes, online dating initially starts with the shallow mentality of "what does this person look like".

    However; girls make decisions based on their emotions. So if you're NOT the "male model" type, it really doesn't matter... even with online dating.

    You may have to initiate contact a lot more than a "hot guy" does, but there are plenty of "hot guys" who are clueless when it comes to women, and they end up sending the same lame messages that every other loser sends, because they don't know any better.

    Also keep in mind that statistics aren't iron clad.
    So whatever the results of some survey/study happens to be, there are ALWAYS exceptions to the rule. (Even in "pick up".)

    I've also known several amazing looking girls who ONLY date men who are of a different ethnic origin than their own. (Yet, with a few exceptions to the rule).

    It all comes down to conveying a confident personality. (Whether you're fun, cocky, serious etc). CONFIDENCE is the biggest key. That means you must not be intimidated by women... EVER.


    Personally, confident & FUN works best for me. (Plus I'm such a braniac/nerd & use that to my advantage too.)

    I do NOT use "text speak" & I always spell out words like "before" (rather than typing B4) Or typing "you" instead of "U". I express intelligence & a quick wit, as well as confidence in every area I can.

    I'm not afraid to initiate sexual topics or touching. I kiss on the first date, ALWAYS... have F-Closed on more than half of those... and by the 2nd if it didn't happen on the first one.

    Don't let your ethnicity be a crutch.
    My friends JT Tran & DJ Fuji are both Asian... and that hasn't hindered them in any way.


    Be unapologetic about who you are.

    Sure, there WILL be some girls who refuse to date outside of their own ethnic group... But that's just how life is, and THEY are the ones missing out.
    But there are PLENTY of 9s & 10s who don't give a rat's ass about that... They're just looking for a guy who can be a MAN.


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    Default Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    Quote Originally Posted by former View Post
    The info about the Asian men and black women makes complete sense.
    Cold hard truth indeed.

    BTW the title scares a little. It reminds of error 404!
    I thought I was the only one who made the similarity connection with Error 404! haha!

    At least the title grabs your attention. (Which BTW is a great example of how & WHY we need to stand out from every other guy out there).

    Don't be afraid "rock the boat & make some noise".
    Being unnoticed is THE WORST thing you can do, when it comes to being successful with women.


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    Default Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    So let's make a fancy tshirt based on the error 404...

    :-)

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    Default Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    It all comes down to 3 things.
    #1- having a SOLID written section.

    #2- photos that covey fun, and that you do in fact have a social life.
    (That means you can't post all "selfies" for your photos.)

    #3- you MUST learn to write a good intro message that stands out.

    Those 3 things together will determine whether your online dating experience is successful or a miserable failure.


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    Default Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    I'm starting my online dating back up, I used to have it cracked but too recently, I've been falling through those cracks. I had a time when I was going on dates two or three times a week with different women. I'd struggle to text women back, as my phone would be beeping two or three times before I completed the last text. I think my attitude at the time was spot on, I think once you know that there are a few women interested in you, there's less to worry about in terms of worrying about letting one slip. You can act like yourself, play banter with them and if they walk, so be it, there's others left.

    It's only when you're stuck with one or two, that the lack of replies from these one, or two, suddenly leaves you desperate to get their attention back. As soon as you get to that stage, you need to back up, or lose the lot.

    I've barely been on this site recently, so came back to do a bit of ground work, so that I can give myself the best chance. T-Mal, I respect you and your results, you obviously know your stuff, so will be interesting to read the comments that you have made and see if I can pick up tips. I struggled to come up with a name, in the end.. I chose 'The1Dave'.... why? Because it was available to use, because it has my name and isn't too desperate and because it has a bit of authority, I hope, in that it has 'The1' as a prefix.

    My profile write up will take some time. At one point, I had it well set up, but again with a barren run, I destroyed it. I chose to edit the lot and came away with something which was a lot weaker for it.

    I'm having verbal outage here, discussing my thoughts on the online game. I'm not intending to deviate from the thread in question and so, it is at this point, I will stop.

    I will end by again saying congratulations to T-Mal for his solid results and that we can all learn something from you mate!

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    Default Re: 440 POF messages in 32 days

    So, what happens when a woman sets up a date, within her first message. The type of place is agreed, to an extent, and the time... but when you ask her for her number, she then stops replying... what's happening?


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