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    nikon11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question is she testing me or loosing interest?

    hi

    there is this girl i like and i am sure she likes me too, i just don't know how much. so fare we had lots of flirty interactions. although we technically only ever had one date, on a few occasions she brought me food to work (we work together). our only date went great i managed to keep her engaged and laughing all night long, teased her plenty and she teased plenty back.

    i am trying to set up a second date and initially she responded extremely positive.

    however when i proposed a date and a place for the second date she said yes but i let you know on the day because my roommate (female) might be planning to cook dinner (her roommate seems to make dinner for them a few times each week)

    i was like wtf you are really telling me that you only go on a dates with me if nothing else comes up? not even something better just something. obviously i didn't tell her that i was only thinking this. in addition on the day i locked in the date she had over 5 days to tell her room mate she has plans.

    so i responded" thats fine i can eat your roommates food . but seriously you need to let me know earlier than that if you are not free i do something else on that day. "

    now i am not sure what to make out of all that. one thing i did after that first date is clearly communicating what a great time i had and that i cant wait to do this again. i am regretting this now worrying i came across to needy.

    is she testing me, or is she loosing interested?
    there still a few days until our date and she has not confirmed or cancelled anything.

    any advice would be great, thanks in advanced

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    Default Re: is she testing me or loosing interest?

    Send her a ping text several hours before the date to confirm the date.
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    Default Re: is she testing me or loosing interest?

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    Send her a ping text several hours before the date to confirm the date.
    That is what I would recommend too. At least you'll know. If she doesn't respond, don't let her take up too much of your time.

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    Default Re: is she testing me or loosing interest?

    Yeah tricky one... she is mentioning her roomate cooking and that is not a legitimate excuse in my book unless its a one off thing or they really promised each other and need to discuss something important... eitherway she should just let you know another night is good.

    It also could be a test so don't be phased by it. Just be persistent and if she consistently flakes then ignore her completely.

    Make sure you Kino...even at work you can do some subtle kino.

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    nikon11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: is she testing me or loosing interest?

    thanks for all the suggestions. good news is she got back to me and confirmed.

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    Default Re: is she testing me or loosing interest?

    Quote Originally Posted by nikon11 View Post
    thanks for all the suggestions. good news is she got back to me and confirmed.
    That's good to hear. Good luck


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