I met a girl couple of months ago on her last day in my city. That evenung and thereafter we kept in touch on facebook chat. We have gotten to know each other well now after many chats and aldo now i have called her once and talked on the phone and we exchange messages on whatsapp. Just a week ago we got into a real emotional chat where she said she told me things she has never told anybody. She also said it would be great if i could be there with her. So did I cause i really like her. So last week i told her i was travelling around some places and a city close to hers is also om my list. She offered to come and show me around immeadiately. But the dates were a bit conflicting so i told her i managed to book an extra day. Also the 2 days before she is coming to show me around she has two big exams but they are done now !
Then since the last weekend (after I told her of my visit) she went very short on the mesaages. She still replied but not with the same frequency. When i jokingly said was she scared to meet me, she said a little but put a hahaha on the end of the chat. She has stopped the details and the endearing names she used to call me.
Yesterday she flaked telling me she had to get prepared for her new job that might start next week !! I dont buy it !
She says she knows i am mad. She says she understands that but she can just say sorry.
I am confused . I feel that she does not want to see me. Maybe cause she was never into me (would be real bitchy of her if that was the case as she made it very obvious that she wanted to see me) or she got scared to see me after I told her I was coming down.
So i guess i need to freeze her out or just say "dont flatter urself. I am not mad, i barely know you. But I am dissappointed. Good luck with everything."
If anyone has any suggestions pls let me know ! I WANT TO LEARN FROM THIS AND MAYBE EVEN KEEP HER AS AN OPEN OPTION. MEANS WHAT I REPLY NOW TO HER LAST MESSAGE WILL BE IMPORTANT. Help !