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Thread: Falling in love too quickly? Do this!

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    Exclamation Falling in love too quickly? Do this!

    First, this is totally normal, this is how we are wired, you body thinks you found a mate a starts bonding process for you to raise a child together.
    Solution:
    * Go meet several girls at a time, your attachment is going to be diluted among all of them, you wont behave or feel needy and you will realize this is how your body works, just like night comes after day, and you need to adapt and deal with these circumstances.
    * Your future projections is your thoughts and 100% controllable, you are in charge of what you think. Learn how to switch your thoughts to a different topic. Meditation helps, being present helps.
    * Enjoy this feeling. This is what I do. Sex is great but love provides much stronger and greater cocktails of neurotransmitters and hormones that make us feel high. It is like a car, learn how to drive and enjoy the ride! And remember, you will need to refill the tank at some point!

    Johnny Maddick

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    Default Re: Falling in love too quickly? Do this!

    This is good advice, although I'm confused as to what exactly you're saying on the third.

    Controlling your fantasies of being with them is very important. When you fantasize about being with someone, your body releases endorphins that makes you feel happy and bonds you to the person, even though the events aren't actually happening. The result is that you feel closer to the girl than you actually are, skewing your perception of the relationship. Also, if you have bonded yourself to her through frequent fantasizing, then if the relationship doesn't work out, you're going to be much more devastated than otherwise.

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    Default Re: Falling in love too quickly? Do this!

    Its like drinking or taking drugs. Moderate consumption brings you pleasure, abuse can fuck you up.
    Only chemicals related to love are naturally produced in our bodies, though similar to what some drugs produce.
    Racing cars are not for beginner drivers, same way is enjoying love is not for beginner puas.


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