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Thread: Day 2 - Movie?

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    Default Day 2 - Movie?

    So last week, I took this girl out for coffee and it went really well. Surprisingly well, in fact, since I had met her a year ago and only had minimal contact with ever since. When I picked her up, I noticed she'd really dolled herself up for our meeting, which I took to mean as a sign she had been/is attracted to me. Her body language was pretty positive as well (leaning in towards me across the table at times, holding eye contact, etc..).
    The next day, I texted her and told her I had a really good time and that we should meet again soon. She suggested we get something to eat, and so we set a date for the weekend.

    Here's where I need some outside consultation:

    I'm moving to a different city pretty soon, a fact of which she is well aware. So I want to step on the gas for our second date, and see if I can get physical with her by the end of our date. I was thinking to just take her out for dinner, and maybe slip in something about watching a movie at her place after. Thing is, that might be a little too overt for this girl, and I don't want her thinking I'm some creep since we hit it off really well.

    TL;DR
    I'm pretty confident I can reel this girl in, but I'm having some trouble thinking of how I can create an opportunity for intimacy without being too obvious. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Day 2 - Movie?

    Before the date take her to your place "for 1 minute" (like you need to feed fish, get mail, change your shirt) tell her she can wait for you outside. If you are driving, pick her up somewhere and drive to your place, if not, pick a restaurant next to your place, meet her there or somewhere close and walk home.

    When at your door you say, "its only one minute, but if you promise to behave and not rape me (because girls normally do so) you can come in". Be playful, when inside the house, show her around to remove the fear of unknown territories, tell her, "this is my kitchen I eat there, my bathroom, bedroom, etc."

    Have some interesting piece of something (game, instrument, book, picture, movie, album) that you can show her. Then say you have this amazing tea, or booze if you feel so, that is from the Moon and you use it only when you meet presidents (or some story like that), and if she behaves well, maybe she can have a cup later (future projection, qualification), but not too late as you need to wake up really early for work/study/etc. (time constraint)

    At this moment if she is already comfortable, and you spend quite some time, you can stay and cook at your place. If she is not quite comfortable go out, but she is already familiar with your place and it will be much easier to bring her back.

    Go eat out, then bounce to a different location - preferably a grocery store, where you need to buy a breakfast for yourself. And guess what, you are willing to get her back to her place but you just need a second to throw your food in the fridge.

    And if you escalated verbally and physically well enough you should have no problem to get physical at home. She wants sex no less than you, you just need to find socially acceptable excuses for her.

    At home use the seduction strategies - but this is the topic for another thread.

    P.S. Going to her place is riskier as you are not in control of many things, but still possible.

    Stay beautiful,

    Johnny Maddick

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    Default Re: Day 2 - Movie?

    Don't be cliche' & predictable with the whole "dinner & a movie" thing.
    After dinner, bounce to a little dive bar for a drink.

    Also, don't be afraid to make your intentions known. Girls will lose interest if you're too timid to bring up the topic of a more adult/intimate/mature/sexual nature.

    Just don't be classless about it.

    Make future projection comments...
    John Sinn has several great examples:

    Things along the lines of-
    "Ya know, if you don't stop being so fun, I'm totally going to start hitting on you."

    Or, "You're a really fun girl.. you have a lot of energy & a great positive vibe.. and I truly mean that... even though I'm totally trying to get in your pants." *wink/smile

    You're stating your interest & intentions in a fun (And still honest) way.



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    Default Re: Day 2 - Movie?

    Appreciated the advice, thank you both.

    Just an update:

    I ended up taking her out to a local amusement park and she seemed like she had a lot of fun. Made her laugh, paid for her entry, and escalated Kino throughout (put my hand on the small of her back when moving through the crowd, touching her hands, thighs, etc). Afterwards, we went out to dinner where she insisted that she pay since I covered her entry to the park.

    However, this is where I make a minor (major?) fark-up. When I take her home, I don't kiss her. It didn't feel like the right time to do it since it would have been predictable for one thing, and forcing it would have been awkward. So when I got home that night, I messaged her and said I had a great time with her, but that dinner would be on me next time to which she promptly agreed.

    I also texted her this morning, but got no response. While this worries me a little bit, I remember she mentioned that this next week was going to be pretty busy for her. So I'm trying not to freak out.

    Does anyone have a suggestion on where I should go from here? I was thinking of waiting a day or two to see if she texts me, and if not, just asking her when/if she's free for dinner this week and making my move then.

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    Default Re: Day 2 - Movie?

    Speed up! you may miss the 10-hour window of opportunity. Bring her to your place for dinner.


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