Re: Talking to girl for 2 months. Wants relationship, but needs work on her
You need to give yourself more value here and stop looking for reassurance. If she wants you she will pine for you. If you want to be with her accept the fact that you might have to approach the relationship with no labels until she's ready. If you've been together for about 4 to 6 months you guys are orficial just too chicken to put one on it. But keep in mind if you force a label then she might scare off.
As for thes tuff that may or may not have happened with the iraq tuy i say who cares. When you give yourself more value you are less likely to be attracted to a girl who is splitting her attention for another man. You dont have to be rude but you can do some freezing out --but i dont think you need to resort to that. Keep your game open too an talk to other women if shes going to talk to other men. Niether of you are responsible for each others feelings unless you've already f closed and or have decided to be in a relationship.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.