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    thecasualpua is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Talking to girl for 2 months. Wants relationship, but needs work on herself

    So I've been talking to this girl for about two months or so that I used to go to High School with. I have little to no complaints about the whole situation. We always have a good time together, laugh more than anything. I've never laughed so much in my life. I can honestly admit that I'm developing true feelings for her and I feel she is doing the same. It's not hard to tell her attractiveness towards me the way she touches and talks to me, but the other day we had a conversation about becoming exclusive and it kind of got touchy. Before me she was only with 2 other guys. One of which she dated all through high school and off and on a couple years after. Another of which who she talked to for an extended amount of time, but turned out to be completely psycho and messed with her head with manipulation and other means.

    She says she likes the idea of being in a relationship with me eventually, but she needs to get back the pieces of herself that she lost when it came to crazy. I can totally get that, as well as the long relationship she had the guy went through a couple tours in Iraq and is kind of mentally unstable at the moment and he doesn't entirely approve of me. They had a face to face conversation the other day and in my mind I believe that's all that happened, but you know how minds can wander. I want to believe all that she is saying because of how much we enjoy the presence of each other and the conversation and sexual energy we possess towards one another.

    I'm just looking for some advice or reassurance towards the situation from some fellow people to back up my notions. So I hope to hear from you guys. Thanks for listening.

    -Casual

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    Default Re: Talking to girl for 2 months. Wants relationship, but needs work on her

    You need to give yourself more value here and stop looking for reassurance. If she wants you she will pine for you. If you want to be with her accept the fact that you might have to approach the relationship with no labels until she's ready. If you've been together for about 4 to 6 months you guys are orficial just too chicken to put one on it. But keep in mind if you force a label then she might scare off.

    As for thes tuff that may or may not have happened with the iraq tuy i say who cares. When you give yourself more value you are less likely to be attracted to a girl who is splitting her attention for another man. You dont have to be rude but you can do some freezing out --but i dont think you need to resort to that. Keep your game open too an talk to other women if shes going to talk to other men. Niether of you are responsible for each others feelings unless you've already f closed and or have decided to be in a relationship.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    thecasualpua is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Talking to girl for 2 months. Wants relationship, but needs work on her

    We have f closed. We've been doing that for awhile now.


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