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Thread: Indirect vs. Direct Game

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    Thumbs up Indirect vs. Direct Game

    Shifting from Indirect Game to direct seems pretty natural to me. I have done the same thing. In the very beginning you go indirect because you feel insecure and by indirectly approaching you have plausible deniability for your actions. Cant really get rejected.

    With time when your self-esteem and your confidence get bigger, you feel that indirect is too slow, takes a lot of time. So you just move to direct - and thats where your mind gets blown off. Not only because it is faster, it is that you can break all the rules you've learnt in indirect game and still get laid.

    However without the confidence you cant really get direct, its not gonna work.

    Think indirect for beginners, direct later.

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    Default Re: Indirect vs. Direct Game

    by indirectly approaching you have plausible deniability for your actions. Cant really get rejected.
    I have found that Indirect Game actually brings about a far worse kind of rejection than Direct Game.

    lets say you've been running indirect game on a girl for say 2 dates (the span of about a week or so) you've invested maybe 15 hours of your time on this girl, but then you find out she's just been using you to occupy her time and that she wants someone else now. (this kind of rejection really tears at you.)

    as opposed to running direct game

    you approach, she isn't interested, it stings a little, you move on and direct approach another girl. you save yourself from wasting time with girls who aren't sexually interested in you.

    thus with direct game it might feel like you're getting rejected more, but ultimately those rejections aren't neer as bad as investing time, emotion and money into girls who end up just wanting to be friends.

    without much emotional investment, rejection isn't all that bad.

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    Default Re: Indirect vs. Direct Game

    This is exactly what I meant. Less pain with indirect, less time with direct


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