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    Default Guilty over sexual past!!

    So I've been dating this girl for over a year now, and things have been going great. However recently, I had to move cross country, from India to the UK, and things have become slightly more difficult to handle. We do tend to get a little insecure, but have a crazy attachment and connection. I surprised her recently, by making a short trip, to come over and see her.

    The first two days were amazing, but on the third day, in the midst of amazing sex, I was teaching her some moves, and she asked me how I knew so much. Without thinking, I admitted to having done it with my ex. Now, while she does know that I had gotten physical with my ex, I must admit that I hadn't ever been completely honest about the extent.

    This is mainly because my current girlfriend, hails from a traditional family, and I'm the first guy she's ever gotten physical with. So, after revealing my sexual past in the spur of the moment, I noticed a sudden change in her demeanour. To make amends, I told her that I was just kidding, and swore that my past was clean.

    While she says that none of this is playing on her mind, I can't help but feel that things have been different since. I am in a bit of a fix. If I tell her the facts about my past, I will come across as an idiot. At the same time, the guilt of lying is consuming me, and I think she sees right through me. I am not being the same around her, and she is finding it unattractive. It is causing friction in the relationship. I am obsessing over this topic, and constantly wondering, what she must be thinking about, while with her!!

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    Default Re: Guilty over sexual past!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny Strabler View Post
    So I've been dating this girl for over a year now, and things have been going great. However recently, I had to move cross country, from India to the UK, and things have become slightly more difficult to handle. We do tend to get a little insecure, but have a crazy attachment and connection. I surprised her recently, by making a short trip, to come over and see her.

    The first two days were amazing, but on the third day, in the midst of amazing sex, I was teaching her some moves, and she asked me how I knew so much. Without thinking, I admitted to having done it with my ex. Now, while she does know that I had gotten physical with my ex, I must admit that I hadn't ever been completely honest about the extent.

    This is mainly because my current girlfriend, hails from a traditional family, and I'm the first guy she's ever gotten physical with. So, after revealing my sexual past in the spur of the moment, I noticed a sudden change in her demeanour. To make amends, I told her that I was just kidding, and swore that my past was clean.

    While she says that none of this is playing on her mind, I can't help but feel that things have been different since. I am in a bit of a fix. If I tell her the facts about my past, I will come across as an idiot. At the same time, the guilt of lying is consuming me, and I think she sees right through me. I am not being the same around her, and she is finding it unattractive. It is causing friction in the relationship. I am obsessing over this topic, and constantly wondering, what she must be thinking about, while with her!!
    Man don't you think it is time to grow up and jettison her anyway? You travel literally across the globe to a foreign land and you pine for a woman in India. Now many Indian women ade uncommonly beautiful, but still man. I think that you need to enlighten yourself and her of more.progressive sexual values. Explain how your time in the west isnchanging you and then... change for the better.

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    Default Re: Guilty over sexual past!!

    You're fucking with her now. Yeah you're not a virgin, so what? Yeah, you had to learn how to fuck with somebody, (or something, if you used a doll), nobody borns knowing everything, so what? Tell her that what matters the most is that you're with her and it's up to her to deal with your past. Either she accepts it, or say next please.


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