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    Default Need help with a shittest

    So this is my case:
    i messaged a girl on OKC and ask her what makes her so special besides her looks, that i would want to date her. I wanted her to tell me something, that her profile does not reveal. And yeah i got the idea from this forum^^

    So here is her reaction:
    "Thats a really arrogant message haha."

    How would you guys deal with that? Is the haha an invite to ease into conversation?

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    Default Re: Need help with a shittest

    Her response was not a ShitTest.

    That is what is called a qualification question. Your mistake was that is too big of a hoop to ask.

    That is like approaching a girl and just asking her right off the bat "So tell me 3 things about you that would make a guy want to get to you know you, but can't have anything about your looks?"

    To do it right, you needed to ask her a set of smaller qualification hoops and if she is comfortable answering them, then escalate to a larger hoop.

    "You look like a fun and adventurous person. So what is the most craziest thing you ever did?" If she is comfortable answering that, then you can escalate.

    A question like that is too much off the bat. That is why you got a response like that. Just think, if a person just came up to you and ask you that question, would you feel compelled to answer? You'd probably be like "Who the f are you?"


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