Re: What to do on dates
I dunno sounds like things are getting pretty boring. And she seems pretty high maintenance like making you want to get more and more creative. Well for me dating is a metaphorical roller coaster because I am so enthralled by this chick but not a "Oneitis" feeling cuz I really dislike her and have no intention of sleeping with her cuz I only want to bang 10's I know you guys can kill me now ^_^
But anyway our first date was a dive bar, then spent the night at her house. The next day we went to a beer festival (free) her friends brought the beer. The following weekend we went to another beer festival but I got mad at her for making out with the other dude she is dating in front of me. So I tried to break up with her but she said I can't and won't stop texting me. She doesn't make me buy her dinner but does like me to share sometimes. I have spent hardly any money on her but last weekend I did buy her concert ticket and again more flirting with other dudes but by this point I am fed up with her and just waiting for her to go away.
Anyway our next date is dinner. I don't know what after that but it's fun cuz finally not a group date! Also I planned on buying her another concert ticket but I am thinking about buying it for the hairstylist instead. Also she wants me to go to Vegas but I am like hell no cuz she is bringing a million people so I already know the protection shield won't let me bang her plus what if she ditches me in Vegas! So she wants me to go that but again I am over her and debating who to take to the next concert likely the hairstylist since I know it will be an Isolation date and my GF will probably make it another group date!!
But yeah I trying to ignore her doesn't work. She just likes every single thing I put on FB and then she texts me how this went or that went. Even if I ignore her over text she will text me at some point. So right now I am pretty much ignoring her for the next two weeks until I "get bored/lonely" and ask her out to dinner before her Vegas trip. After that I don't know what my plan is because I will be seeing the hairstylist after our dinner date so I hope it goes well with me picking her up! But it helps me to invite them to fun activities first and then dinner dates work for continuation dating. For you...
I would say get out of going broke over this chick. My chick barely ever makes me spend a lot of money on her. But as far as dates go for ideas in general here are some ones I am going to be trying out eventually.
Yoga and Coffee
Holiday Events (perfect cuz usually free!)
But concerts are a smash and usually always get me a date!
Dive Bars are great too (bar and grill spots) cuz you can still sit down and have a convo over dinner then get drunk
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.