Re: I Think I Farked Up, I Need Advice!!
Several several mistakes here. Not what you said however what you did was where you conveyed too much interest. Try my method of putting them on hold or setting a date and then text ditching them. I followed those simple rules with my GF and she texted me all day and didn't flake on our first date. She insisted three days before, the day before and then the day of but I literally didn't plan on contacting her. This is a nice "bait and switch" move I like to play get em to agree to a date and then ditch em! The first time I tried it worked but will try it on my next GF too. My GF ALWAYS texts me back. Usually no more than 1 day. Sometimes I send 1 very rarely do I get ignored.
Because I was simply honest and open. I didn't smother her and never sent more than 3 texts in a row. But into you yeah you gave her way too much power and for sures she is not calling you this weekend. Now you have to win her back because she showed that you place too much value on her showing up this makes girls uneasy. When my girl ditched me for activity #1 I just said honey it's okay I know you are busy. That simple kind hearted reply got me one of the first compliments she ever gave me. She was like okay boo I just was doing some girls hair but couldn't come so how about tonight what are you doing tonight? So then of course we met up that night and I spent the night at her house.
Your reaction was rather negative and she how mine differed? Granted you were kinda guilt tripping her and so she bullsh!ted you even more. Gotta be real dawg cuz when you play the control freak she is gonna lose interest fast and stop investing which she is obviously doing. To get her back simply tell her yesterday was not that important and you had other things to do but you are glad she is willing to meet up this weekend. You have to win her back after the fvck up cuz if you ignore it she will ignore you. So trust me suck it up and stop acting like that. Do what I do invite chicks on dates ditch them and then when they flake say "okay baby I know you are busy" and boom all those nerves she has about meeting up go away. By being cool calm and collected I have comfort with my girl and so that's why now she is pretty much always strait up. I trained her that way!
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