First off I've been following this site for awhile now and I am thankful for all the amazing content on here, thanks. I am somewhat new to the game.
Ok the Problem...
The Short Version
I want my sister's friend (F-close or Short Term Relationship, whatever I don't care). She put up the "No Sex" Wall because she's afraid if things go wrong she'll lose (me and) my sister. If things went sour, she can still be friends with my sis. I don't care. And to top it all off my buddy is going after her. Constantly making sexual advances on her on FB and real life.
She's a HB 7.5, 8 in personality But has a lot of issues and bad history (drugs and been around a lot). I pretty much just want a F-close or buddy. If thing don't work out I don't care that much.
The Long Version-
My sisters friend and I kinda have a thing for each other, but she had a boyfriend back then. I haven't seen her in a few years and she came back recently (and now single). My buddy(who wants her) brought her to his party and we hit it off pretty well. I was DQ'ing her, flirting abit, she was feeling my biceps then dropped the "No Sex" bomb. I was mentally blown away so I tried to joke it off and said "good caz I don't want a scrawny little girl like you" (looking back I should have prolly re-assured her it would be ok nothing would go wrong). We've hung out a few times after, I've been doing all the leading from texting to hanging out. I've been trying to escalate and lead it into the bedroom, but both times she said "I'm tired, I just want to sleep".
Which could be legit lol.
I think I should escalate thing with more Kino and re-assure her that nothing bad would happen. I am just gonna ignore what my buddy is doing and try to not let it bug me and go for the gold. If things don't work out, whatever.
Thanks for any advice you can give.