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    Default wish you were in my bed

    So the other night I was with my girl. We were just getting ready to head out, I had been talking to a friend out in the living room as she was getting ready in her room. I saw she was done and i walked in and layed next to her on the bed. She asked what time is it? Then she turned her phone on to see. Well what popped up was a text thread and I inadvertently saw the context of it. There was a text that said, wish you were in my bed. I confronted her about it in the car and she tried to pretend I was making stuff up, but I know what I saw. Then she admitted that she often jokingly sex.ts her 2 best friends who are girls. She said that's what I probably saw and she showed me a fb message thread where they were joking back and forth. The only thing is I saw the texts to her phone, not a fb thread. I seriously doubt it was her girl friends. This is really bothering me and feel like I lost all trust in her.

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    Default Re: wish you were in my bed

    I would ask her gfs if she does do this with them before I reach any conclusions. I would ask them in a friendly/joking manner.

    If they say no, then she could be entertaining someone else. If that is the case, then it's her loss.

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    Oh she definitely does sext with her girls on fb messaging and I told her I'm fine with that. She showed me a fb thread where the 3 of them joke around. They'll do things like send a thumbs up saying they're fingering each other. They all have bf's so I don't really care.

    But the text message thread I saw was different. She showed me the fb thread which was unrelated. She denied the text thread. We both have the same phone. So I know what I saw and she is being deceitful. How she reacted, saying I made it up was concerning.

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    Ok, no offense but jealousy is ugly, it's a big no-no. It usually comes from a lack of confidence - worried that she might likes someone else more than you - and so acting jealous comes off as being not confident. That's why jealous guys get cheated on more often.

    The way you need to look at it is that you are the best guy ever, and you can get any other girl any time you want. Be confident about it, repeat it as much as you need, know it. Be confident that there is no way she can meet a guy even half as good.

    Act like this, and your girl will act like it too. When I see guys hitting on my girl, I usually go and wingman for them, like "damn, he got a PHD. Seriously you should go with him. Wait but this one got a car. My god, that's a tough choice." And she laughs, and she leaves with me anyway, because I showed crazy confidence.

    The other side of the coin is: what if she cheats? Well, since you're the best guy ever, it means she cheated on you with someone not as good as you. Which means she got poor tastes, and you're better off without her. She just showed she didn't deserve you, so it's good you got rid of her early, this way you can go on and find one that actually deserves you.
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    Default Re: wish you were in my bed

    I agree jealousy is not attractive. Usually I'm not like this, not sure what's gotten in to me! So in this situation do I just let it slide and go on or can I still tease her about it?

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    Actually there's a difference in jealousy and losing trust. I have no problem dropping her and going on to the next girl if she doesn't want to be committed. So no I'm not being jealous. I have a huge problem with lying and will not tolerate it. I just don't trust her anymore. I have good reason to believe she is a liar, not just from this but other signs as well.

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    Default Re: wish you were in my bed

    Quote Originally Posted by acepace View Post
    Actually there's a difference in jealousy and losing trust. I have no problem dropping her and going on to the next girl if she doesn't want to be committed. So no I'm not being jealous. I have a huge problem with lying and will not tolerate it. I just don't trust her anymore. I have good reason to believe she is a liar, not just from this but other signs as well.
    Well, time to move then. You don't want to date a liar, she's a liar, go and find someone that deserves you.
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