Here's a little back ground about this girl.
I always go to this Little Caesars Pizza place near me & I noticed this cute girl there. Never really paid her any mind. Now I always order the pizza's not cut, because I like to cut them myself. After a while of me going there & becoming a regular, she started talking to me about "Why I never get the pizza cut?" after explaining and making small talk... I leave. A couple other times I go there throughout the next month, I see her again & she asks the same question, but this time teasing me. Now usually the people making the pizza always give me the pizza, never the cashier (what she is), she casually acts like she needs to wipe the table & right as the guy is handing me the pizza, she takes in from him & hands it to me. So at that point I figured she's potentially interested in me. Especially if she went through all the trouble just to get a little interaction between us.
The next time I walk in there I told myself if she's there I'm going to go for the number, and sure enough shes there. As I walk through the door I hear her tell the other cashier, "Don't worry Kayla, I've got this one." At that moment I knew it was in the bag. So just chatted a few & asked her to write her number down so I can see her sometime other than this place. Asked for her name & how old she was (20) & told her I'll get a hold of her later.
The next day I take her around noon.
The Text Conversation:
Me: Hey, is this Rachael?
Me: Cool My name is Desmond btw. Some people know me by Cody though, Or in your prospective "the guy that never cuts his pizza" Lol
Her: Loll I'll probably call you Desmond
Me: I'd prefer that Haha. So what do you do besides work? Go to school?
Her: No I'm not in school right now, I will be in January. What do you do?
Me: As you probably already know, right now I work in Walmart's automotive department, & I just graduated with my degree in automotive.
Me: Currently I'm job searching and waiting for something to come along that I like.
Her: Well that's good. Where do you wanna work?
Me: As far as a specific place in mind... I don't know. Either at a diesel mechanic place or a performance division, like taking stock sports cars and building them into street race cars. I'm currently driving a sports car I built all by myself! So it'll be probably something along the lines of that.
Her: Well that's good, I think you have a good plan
Me: Well I hope so lol. What about you? Any hobbies you're into? Like, what do you do with most of your spare time?
Her: I honestly don't do anything, I just work and if I'm not at work I'm at home watching netflix.
"At this point I was so tired from work, I fell asleep for like 2 hours, woke up and text her back"
Me: So yeah... Totally fell asleep and just woke up lol
Her: Loll that's okay
Me: Do you ever talk on the phone? Or are you one of those people who only text?
Her: I hate texting loll
Me: Haha are you free to talk now?
Her: I'm with my dad
Me: Gotcha, well I'm going to hop in the shower and get some things ready for tomorrow... I'll call you in like an hour
Her: Okay well my phone is about to die and I'm out with him so idk if I'll be home.
Me: Alright, thanks for the heads up, we will figure this out eventually lol
About 2 hours later it's 11PM, I tried calling her & no answer. 10 minutes later I text her.
Me: Tired calling you, just get a hold of me later
Now that all took place Oct 2nd, 2014 around 7pm-11pm.
I don't want to come off pushy or needy. So I never got back with her, was kinda patiently waiting for her to get a hold of me. I feel like maybe shes playing hard to get? Idk, through my experience I've known girls never to really take the first initiative unless they REALLY like you or they're your girlfriend. (Idk why even told her to get a hold me knowing this)
How should I go about next contact? Or did I screw it all up?