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    Default Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    Okay recently i came across a lady who i had added to the popular site Myspace on my FB. Ironically we seem to have a lot in common, especially music and movies. (she is a big Talib Kweli fan so i dedicate this one song he did to her on my page) she is in her late thirties and i just hit thirty a couple of weeks ago. She is a radio host and a therapist on the side. One thing that happen recently is she announced that she is getting back in the gym and was going to be working out with this big buff personal trainer Which lead me to the initiating the C+F and blocking of him in the convo. By her being a radio host she has a load of fans flirting etc. (she is sexy as hell for 38).


    what would be some tips to getting the number etc because so far it been private messages

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    Can you put s thread of some of the messages you've been messaging back and forth, so I can know where to help you at.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    well we had dialogues like this me and her friendship is still fresh

    Me: Hey how are you seen that you are a fan of (insert random rapper name) and i thought that you may like this . Posts video

    Her: thank you i really love that song


    she told me on one of her pictures that she is a open book and i could ask her anything but the thing is i dont always get a respond from her (after all she is a DJ/ blogtalk radio host) and she has a load of friends. one of which is a bodybuilder . And i workout myself however we have a little competition in terms of getting her affection. He is ahead a bit cause he is her trainer. Ive sent some PMs telling her that i wanted to tell her something but i didnt get any response.

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    Forget about her job, alleged fans and body building trainer. Be confident, fun and ask her out. You don't even necessarily need the number as you are already messaging. Move it forward beyond what you have in common towards flirtation and building attraction rather than building muscles. Talking about what you have in common will only get you so far and discussing music with a DJ/radio host will not have much power unless you are a famous musician. I would try more abstract, emotional dialogues that encourage fundamental male/female role playing, sexual inuendo and anticipation to meet up for a date. You don't always need to compete by being better than other guys - you can do it by being different to other guys.

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    Was i too direct here???:

    Her:what did you want to ask me?
    Me: out of curiosity are you single?
    sorry but i have to ask

    Her: yes. i am single but I do go out

    Me: hmm was wondering why the silent treatment
    keep ya options open for me

    Her: i will (thumbs up)


    ETA: recently i wrote a poem and share it with everyone and she was the second response telling me how wonderful it was

    its was a appreciative poem in regards to women in general

    thoughts on next approach

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    You're starting to move up that pedastal of oneistis if you show her that poem. Leave that stuff for when you've kissed, f-closed a few times and are starting to move forward into a serious relationship. Whitedragon is right in forgetting her job in the approach and just be bold but with this said you need to consider that she is likely to be defensiive towards any signs that someone might be a creep. 50 years ago a poem being gifted to someone might be sweet but times have changed. Be honest with yourself here. You hardly know anything about her and she really doesnt know anything about you. Its ok to be bold but its not ok to push for love and effection when they can't trust you because they havent known you long enough and sought you out to get to know you. You have to start with the basics of attraction and communicate yourself to her one on one and flirt. Lrave the romance out till later. Keep it simple
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    Asking her if she's single and being sorry for it is a red flag for "hey, I'm a wuss".
    If she's not single, she'll tell you, or demonstrate it, no need to ask.
    Regarding the poem, artandale has already said everything.

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    You're starting to move up that pedastal of oneistis if you show her that poem. Leave that stuff for when you've kissed, f-closed a few times and are starting to move forward into a serious relationship. Whitedragon is right in forgetting her job in the approach and just be bold but with this said you need to consider that she is likely to be defensiive towards any signs that someone might be a creep. 50 years ago a poem being gifted to someone might be sweet but times have changed. Be honest with yourself here. You hardly know anything about her and she really doesnt know anything about you. Its ok to be bold but its not ok to push for love and effection when they can't trust you because they havent known you long enough and sought you out to get to know you. You have to start with the basics of attraction and communicate yourself to her one on one and flirt. Lrave the romance out till later. Keep it simple

    i understand where you coming from. bit the bold is false certain things have already been establish via wall posts.

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    i ll make note of the other stuff. but make this the last time that "wuss" bullshit is utter in my thread . Thanks

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    Default Re: Need You Guys Help Bagging This 38 year Old From my FB

    See you're thinking too logical which is why you find it false. Women have their guards up based upon how well they know that person through a series of encounters that prove the person is not only who they say they are but also that you arent a creep
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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