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    Default She always answers but in a laconic way

    Hi everybody!

    There is this girl on Badoo who's responds are always very cynical and laconic. But she answers me every time I write something to her.

    Something like this:

    Me: Hi, X! I've seen that you are hiding your ears. Do they exist at all?
    She: I have no ears.
    Me: Ok, now I understand why are you trying to chat on the internet. You must be good at smelling [...] How do you listen to XY if you have no ears?
    She: Thru my nose.
    Etc.

    I stopped texting her because I got tired of her unwillingness. But I want to give her another chance now.

    What should I do differently? Do I failed at her shittest? Does she worth the second try? What do you think?

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    Default Re: She always answers but in a laconic way

    You're asking silly questions & she's giving silly replies.
    She's demonstrating a WONDERFUL sense of humor!

    This is totally the type of girl that I personally go for.

    You need to play along & express some wit & intelligence with her. She's a sassy girl with a strong personality... and she's DEFINITELY gonna test you to see if you're confident enough to hang with her.

    She's not unwilling to text you. She's trying to engage you in an interaction that can be one of THE MOST creative & fun things you've ever encountered.

    Respond with something like: "Ohhh I gotcha now. You must be the type who can also speak through your toes! I've heard about girls like you... So, what other hidden talents do you have? Personally, I can walk & chew gum at the same time. It took me a while but I FINALLY mastered it. We should get together & compare oddities sometime!"

    If it goes nowhere, who cares? BUT... there's a good chance that you'll get her to play along & she'll be hooked because you showed a more unique side than the rest of the chumps messaging her.



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: She always answers but in a laconic way

    I second what t-mal is saying.

    I do just want to add that since you're probably looking to have her invest more it might be reasonable to invest more with challenging statements, questions or scenarios. Continue to stoke the fire with more wood. Another tip is to think about what you're saying or asking--if its a complex and indepth question thats the kind of answer / response you get in relation. Avoid yes / no or one word answers and responses unless its needed to move forward in the relationship
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: She always answers but in a laconic way

    Thank you for your answers!

    You are all right about the set. I think my main goal now is to get longer answers from her. All my attempts failed no matter how witty, silly or seriously i've tried. Can you help me with examples?

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    Default Re: She always answers but in a laconic way

    I suggest looking up some of T-mal's threads in regards to his Do's and Don'ts Texting Bible as for starters. Its about 30 some pages of critiques of texts and suggested text. Its a great place to start--but ultimately you have to remember to put your personality into it so it flows.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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