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Thread: I messaged a girl on OK cupid what do I say now

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    Default I messaged a girl on OK cupid what do I say now

    I messaged a girl that viewed my profile and said something about her checking me out and it wasn't polite to not say hi and she said lol hi back how do I respond back???

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    Default Re: I messaged a girl on OK cupid what do I say now

    Tell her something like, you get the sense she has has an adventurous side & that she's giving off a fun vibe.

    Be flirty...

    And stay away from trying to have a conversation about work or school.


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    Default Re: I messaged a girl on OK cupid what do I say now

    What I was gonna say is that she seems so fun by her profile that I expected more than lol I .. Then be like now LOL HI!! That's more like and type that in kinda cocky funny but also shows her fun side idk whats ur opinion T mal

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    Default Re: I messaged a girl on OK cupid what do I say now

    I get the "lol hi"s and "lol ur funny"s and "haha"s on occasion. My experience is that most of them will waste your time. Some girls are either bad at conversing or not quite willing to actually engage themselves into online dating.

    Drop a few more flirty feelers, send off a playful vibe, stay true to your actual (best) personality, and if she is still non-committal just drop her as a lost cause. Some other schmuck who is willing to converse with himself just to grab a pair of t1ts will take her on, you're gonna move on to better game.

    A feeler I've been playing with is "I lost my partner in crime, do you have your ski mask?" While that might not "fit" into your conversation, it's things like that that girls love. It opens her up to her fun side, challenges her to be creative and "go along with the game," and shows that you're unique and fun as well. Girls that just don't get what you're doing are STILL not gonna get what you're doing thirty texts and a meetup from now, make sense?

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    Default Re: I messaged a girl on OK cupid what do I say now

    [LIST][*]Here is what happened and what I sent and what she sent just waiting to see if she gives me her number if not may try re-engage text..[*][*]Just had to check me out didn't you, don't u know it's not polite to look and not say Hi!? I saw you viewed my profile so I had ask..
    Sent from the OkCupid app Sunday

    [*] Lol hi
    Sent from the OkCupid app Monday

    [*] Haha, "Lol hi" is not the reply I would have expected, from your profile, I got a feeling that left me expecting something more people-personish, yup that's a made up word.
    Sent from the OkCupid app Tuesday

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    [*]Haha and what would a personish person say in this situation? Sent from the OkCupid app Tuesday

    [*] "Oh Thank you complete stranger for that message if I got one more "Hey Shawty" message I would lose all hope".. I'm a dreamer.. Names Corey.
    Sent from the OkCupid app Tuesday

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    [*] Hello Corey the dreamer. I am Elissa. And yes thank you for not calling me shawty or boo thang Lol
    Sent from the OkCupid app Tuesday

    [*] Well hi Missa Elissa, what kinda mischief ru u up too today, stealing free samples at walmart? I had a feeling you had a little naughty side ;-) haha.
    Sent from the OkCupid app Wednesday


    [*] I got a free massage today it was awesome there is a massage therapy school in town and they needed practice so they put it up on facebook that they were having it today it was super fantastic. what are you doing? p.s. they only have free samples on saturdays!

    [*]Strawberry poptart now you're stealing free massages, I knew you were trouble ;-) You're totally gonna get me grounded lol .. Sounds awesome though where was it? Oh I was at a place I love so much (sarcasm) they pay me too little for my time spent there.[*] Lol there is a massage therapy school in town and their students needed practice.[*]Hey little Miss GSFMWM why don't we exchange numbers and we can discuss this some more?
    P.S. I will only text u like 30x's a day 50 on holidays today is national Bologna day. [*]Gets Super Fantastic Massages Without Me just in case ya all didn't know lol

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    Default Re: I messaged a girl on OK cupid what do I say now

    Looks like you're doing good. Just don't get carried away with 'gamey' messages. What I mean is it seems like you're being overly silly with your messages. Keep them as short as you can.


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