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    Default impossible girl

    I wanted to write a post cause I'm curious. About who is your dream girl and what is stopping you from getting her? Comment and tell me I'm extremely interested in your stories

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    Default Re: impossible girl

    I dont think this is really a useful question to ask. Go out and find women in reality, get to know them and then you will have a better idea of what you are into.

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    Default Re: impossible girl

    Only thing that stops me from getting my dream girl is AFC behavior.

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    Default Re: impossible girl

    This is a loaded question, and actually really detrimental to finding a girl. If you have all these expectations of what a girl should be, you set yourself up for failure. Any girl you may meet either won't fit your expectations and you blow off perfectly awesome women or if, by chance, she meets some of your criteria, you become WAY too overly invested and end up chasing her away.

    Just meet people and find people who you get along with. That's the best way to find an awesome girlfriend.

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    Default Re: impossible girl

    Quote Originally Posted by ConnorMaxwell72 View Post
    This is a loaded question, and actually really detrimental to finding a girl. If you have all these expectations of what a girl should be, you set yourself up for failure. Any girl you may meet either won't fit your expectations and you blow off perfectly awesome women or if, by chance, she meets some of your criteria, you become WAY too overly invested and end up chasing her away.

    Just meet people and find people who you get along with. That's the best way to find an awesome girlfriend.
    I agree completely, you can become set - up for oneitis if you have all these pre - set criteria and requirements for your wife. (Thing is some personalities just won't be able to survive around yours in the long run)

    one rough diamond vs tons of beautifully well cut sapphires
    you call the shots

    However at the same time you can weed out all the ones that REALLY aren't meant to be a long term match for you, as women move so fast in to days day and age. You can keep testing out which ones really suit you. After you've gone through those experiences that really show you who you are, only then you can truly decide what you want in your dream girl as opposed to the mental notes you have made for yourself in the current moment.

    More on oneitis here


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