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    fridaybagels is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do I get over this chick?

    I met a chick in NYC over a year ago right before moving. We exchanged numbers, and texted/talked for months and months. The connection was good, we enjoyed talking to each other, and in the last few months leading up to my return, we started talking more serious (idiotically, in retrospect) talking about marriage, etc. Not in a big serious way, but in a fun kind of way. I REALLY liked this girl.

    We meet again in NYC, go on a date, and she goes cold on me afterward. I pressed her a bit too much in the aftermath of the date (I was insecure about my weight gain), and she dropped off the radar.

    I waited until she was back from her trip (over a month) before contacting her again. That's when she, rather brutally, tells me "I have a boyfriend " with a smiley for added evilness. Then she talks about how we were never in a real relationship, yada yada, we "didn't work out"... it stings.

    She goes on an overseas trip, and apparently meets a guy in her field (she's a scientist), and they're "dating" now I guess. Despite the fact that he's in Italy and she's in the states. I saw her change her relationship from "single" to "ask". I thought I was over this b*tch, but when I saw that it was like another punch to my gut. I really really liked her. Maybe I let it get too out of hand in my head. I think It was way more serious for me than it was for her. I think she was using me for entertainment when she was bored.

    How do I move on? Rejection f*cking sucks, especially when she goes for another guy. Not good for my self-esteem.

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    Default Re: How do I get over this chick?

    Take the time to feel remorse & agony. That's part of the healing process. Just don't do it over social media sites like Facebook.
    Do it privately.

    Then game other girls. Go out & meet me people.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    chr1s7ian is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How do I get over this chick?

    You gotta get out there man. Its the only way. My best bud had his fiance leave him this summer and she was with another guy in month. Tore his fucking heart out and spit on it. She was seriously an evil bitch. Needless to say, he was a mess for months. Wouldn't do anything, fucked up at work, blamed his family for pushing the fiance away. It was baaaad.

    Finally after pushing and pushing we got him to start coming out to the bars again. He put some work into getting better at picking up girls and really enjoyed getting back into the chase. Now he's the one calling me every Friday to plan our night of sarging. You NEED to get out there man. There's so many beautiful and caring girls out there waiting for you to find them.

    One of them is going to make you forget this girl even existed. You just gotta go find her cause she isn't going to find you if you continue down this path.

    You have it in you man! Just go do it!

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    Default Re: How do I get over this chick?

    If she treated you like that, then is that actually a girl you would want to date? You may have just dodged a bullet. As far as I'm concerned it's her loss not yours.

    There are plenty of other fish in the sea. You can do better than her, you know you can. Let your anger out when you are alone, and go out an start meeting other people. Nothing gets your mind off a girl who treated you badly than finding new girls to direct your attention to.


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