I met up with one of my coworkers for a lunch date recently. I know lunch dates aren't the best ones, but I really didn't know her that well so I figure a 1-2 hrs would be a start. We hit it off really well. She was laughing and touching just a bit. I'd like to ramp it up with a dinner date next time in the future.
Anyways, i'll get to the point. There is this other guy coworker who hangs around her. He's cool, but I wouldn't trust the guy. I think he's trying to go from best friend to lover. I also hear this guy is married. I work in a restaurant setting and I always see this guy hanging around her like a purse. Sometimes, he takes her home after work, walks her to car every time, and does everything for her. He cockblocked me one time, I invited her out to come out and go to a bar, and she ended up going home with her butler friend.
She tells me this guy is her "best-friend". I find it a load of BS, but I don't tell her that. Instead, I laugh it off and say, "he's cool." I know this guy what this guy wants.
Something tells me that if I continue dating this girl, I might run into this guy more often. How do I deal with these type of guys? I may end up getting into an argument w him. For the first time, I can see myself being the arrogant/jerk/asshole, while he's the "WHITE KNIGHT".