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Thread: What To Do With The Butler Friend?

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    Default What To Do With The Butler Friend?

    I met up with one of my coworkers for a lunch date recently. I know lunch dates aren't the best ones, but I really didn't know her that well so I figure a 1-2 hrs would be a start. We hit it off really well. She was laughing and touching just a bit. I'd like to ramp it up with a dinner date next time in the future.

    Anyways, i'll get to the point. There is this other guy coworker who hangs around her. He's cool, but I wouldn't trust the guy. I think he's trying to go from best friend to lover. I also hear this guy is married. I work in a restaurant setting and I always see this guy hanging around her like a purse. Sometimes, he takes her home after work, walks her to car every time, and does everything for her. He cockblocked me one time, I invited her out to come out and go to a bar, and she ended up going home with her butler friend.

    She tells me this guy is her "best-friend". I find it a load of BS, but I don't tell her that. Instead, I laugh it off and say, "he's cool." I know this guy what this guy wants.

    Something tells me that if I continue dating this girl, I might run into this guy more often. How do I deal with these type of guys? I may end up getting into an argument w him. For the first time, I can see myself being the arrogant/jerk/asshole, while he's the "WHITE KNIGHT".

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    Default Re: What To Do With The Butler Friend?

    That guy has a vagina, no problem with him. Just have occasional conversations with him about football, baseball, whatever. And laugh together, so that he likes you.

    Regarding to your girl. Dinner dates are shit. Loads and loads of pressure, because it's a fucking dinner date. No physical proximity, no Kino, you can't really do anything spontaneous. Do something else, such as bowling, karaoke, driving a kart, scuba diving, whatever, because those activities are fun and can lead to loads of touching and bantering.

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    Default Re: What To Do With The Butler Friend?

    If ahes buddy buddy with him try framing her position with this guy as they would make a great couple. She's likely to tell you she's not into him. That alone is enough to destroy his chances. Its reverse psychology because she isnt likely to move onto a guy who she cant see sexually and anything more than a friend. But the best solution is to ignore it and game her anyways
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: What To Do With The Butler Friend?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    If ahes buddy buddy with him try framing her position with this guy as they would make a great couple. She's likely to tell you she's not into him. That alone is enough to destroy his chances. Its reverse psychology because she isnt likely to move onto a guy who she cant see sexually and anything more than a friend. But the best solution is to ignore it and game her anyways
    This, times one million. You can often use it as a neg.

    "So. I see you have a little pet.. does he beg on your command?"

    Hell if you are feeling really ballsy, say it to her right in front of him. Give him a kind of sideways glance while you say it. He may not like it, but she'll cream her jeans.

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    Default Re: What To Do With The Butler Friend?

    Interesting info guys thx.

    I've been trying to figure out which time is the best time to take a chick out. Some of said evening and night because any activity leads to the damn bedroom. While Daytime is more casual, and has less pressure on both people.

    Silicon, that is pretty damn Alpha, The guys nice to me, so I'll be kind for the moment. But if the guy did some sh** to annoy or piss me off, I'll consider using a line similar of that Alphaness. lol

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    Default Re: What To Do With The Butler Friend?

    The best time to take a chick out is when its convient.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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