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    Default Is this getting borring?

    Co-worker i got het phone number yesterday.
    We had a short talk end with lets have drinks yesterday.
    Today:

    ME - Okay, what's you favorite cocktail? - good subject at 8:30
    Her - Whahaa
    Her - You are early!!!
    ME - Thought might as well wake you...you'll be late for work again...would be bad if you didn't have a boyfiend and no work
    Her - that's sweet
    Her - but i'm free today
    Me - Haha nice...so we going for cocktails tonight
    Her - Haha ... well...other time...weekend or so
    Her - Have to work Tomorrow.
    Me - Haha...This is your weekend right? Two day free ...lol
    Her - Yeah...actually your right
    Me - ...
    Me - But a nice chill evening on the couch could be nice..
    Her -

    I'm worried this all will get boring... Might need some inspiration to slide in the sex flirt before getting her to come out.

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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    I like gaming co-workers sometimes. You can get really far with them. Kino, f-close, k-close. Her LMR's are easily overcome because she is mostly worried about the secrecy between you 2. That being said the sexual Tension builds all day when you act as if you don't know her any better than the rest of the staff. Then you drop that text on her.'' your ass looks great''. Be more forward also try a date directly after work. you have more of a chance because she is already out. they great part is she will already be isolated from the time work is out. Happy hunting bro. I want a update...
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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    When you two are working, flirt with her in a way that makes her the aggressor and acknowledging barriers. Something like "hey dork, stop checking me out! I'd kiss you, but we're coworkers and I don't want you to make a drama and make us two fired just because of you wanting me so much!". With a smirk.

    Or "you're so hot girl that every old man is checking you out!". But there's no old man around, so she'll answer "I'm not seeing any old man!". You simply smile and blink your eye.

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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    Seems like she's comfy enough without a dinner date. Invite her over make dinner together or just close her immediately when you see the oppurtune moment together
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    About messing with coworkers, don't you guys fear things wl get around about you at the job? That's my problem now, I want to game some coworkers but don't want my name in people's mouth at the job.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    @marvilo ... Make sure you can trust her. Takes alot of flirting but a los alot of comfort. If she is a great girl, she will appreciate discretion as much as you. Obviously, avoid the office blabber mouth or gossip girl. And the whiner complainers. These should not be trusted too much.

    Make sure you qualify for trust also. She will like that you care about both your reps
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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    Quote Originally Posted by DeviantMethod View Post
    I want a update...
    reluctant to post this because shit hit the fan.
    Thursday at coffee break she was present while an other (female) colleague started to interegate me about a friend of her who I played. as you might understand this killed momentum totally as I went straight into the the untrustworthy jerk collum...havnt really had a chance to change that view since.

    I always try to be clear in my intentions but sometimes woman get the wrong impression. I always feel sorry for those but I'm sure in what I want.

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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    Thanks for the update. Trust me, it's better to be the jerk than the nice guy. Go cold for awhile but always act warm if you do happen to see her.

    Mixed signals are great because if she likes you, and you end up being the "jerk," she may think that she can change you into the good guy you seem to be when around her. This is a very powerful fantasy for women. But at this point, you can't push. Lay off for a bit.
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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    About messing with coworkers, don't you guys fear things wl get around about you at the job? That's my problem now, I want to game some coworkers but don't want my name in people's mouth at the job.

    It sort of works both ways. If you keep on being the playful flirt and teaser then most of the girls will take you for that cool and fun guy. You want to be that guy that makes them smile and have a good time. Don't go after any one in specific but become the awesome guy at work. This will work to your advantage in night outs with your coworkers or at work parties. Your social proof is there and that image you've built up so far will work to your advantage.


    This has worked for me at work. I'm that guy in the middle of the UK with an American accent who everybody wants to get to know. Every christmas party at work my manager pulls me to the dancefloor and we have a dance off regardless if non of us can dance but everybody cheers us and everybody wants to talk to us.

    I understand your worries with managers but I get in their good books by working hard and delivering results. They know my character so they give me my space and I give them that respect in return.

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    Default Re: Is this getting borring?

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Thanks for the update. Trust me, it's better to be the jerk than the nice guy. Go cold for awhile but always act warm if you do happen to see her.

    Mixed signals are great because if she likes you, and you end up being the "jerk," she may think that she can change you into the good guy you seem to be when around her. This is a very powerful fantasy for women. But at this point, you can't push. Lay off for a bit.
    This was more or less the plan..no texting (very tempting) no approaching...the initial seed is still there.


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