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Thread: Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?

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    Default Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?

    I've had some mild success online dating women, and with that some mild success in life with women. Problem is I really let my looks do most of my work, and I neglect my game. I have wicked sense of humor and am often told I'm silly, goofy, crazy; etc by girls. Which actually really carries out well in real life.

    However, there is no tone or way to tell inflection on online dating. I've been struggling to pull out my conversations longer but constantly hit a wall and fail. The successes I have had have been 10 messages or less, a number, 10 texts or less, and a meet up. I've had enough failures on first dates, I've figured out a nice recipe.

    I'm just curious how you guys all play it out. Go for the number and quick date or do you ride out the convo until she's begging to meet up?
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?

    Online game is kinda different, is kind of a numbers game. The more girls you talk to, the higher is the probability of succeeding.
    Thing is, when it comes to what you say... to your game per se, it's really all about the same. Making her the aggressor. So you have to convey that you're the prey.

    Be bold. Tease them, throw some c&f lines, such as:
    You: stop!
    Her: what?
    You: stop thinking about me so much! My left hear is burning, which means you're thinking about me!

    Or in the middle of a conversation:
    you: hey... I'm afraid...
    Her: of what???
    you: I really don't know if I should say...
    Her: oh come on!
    You: when we meet up, I'm afraid that you'll see me as your favorite chocolate! I know I'm pretty tasty and addictive, but you can't want me only for you/you should only want me because of how I am! A guy has feelings... with a smirk.

    So it's all about making her the aggressor and go straight for the meet up, which means attraction by all means should be built and some comfort obviously, since she doesn't know you at all.
    When she agrees to meet with you, then you say: "agent 008, when we reach our rendezvous, we gotta contact each other. Time to exchange the big numbers!"

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    Default Re: Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?

    10 messages is too much. You should be closing in 3-5 messages. If she's interested but not quite ready to give her number then talk a little more. But yeah you wanna move quickly. The longer you wait she could lose interest or meet someone else.

    Don't be texting much either. Text her your name when you get her number and then call her.

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    Default Re: Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?

    I do a lot of online dating and am very good at it. I try to have as little contact as possible before meeting them. No email conversations, phone call only if I absolutely have to. I try to go right for meeting for a drink as quickly as possible.

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    Default Re: Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?

    How long's a piece of string? And really, who cares!? Have fun with the interaction and close when the timing's right.

    Some girls are ready to meet up straight away and to some online dating is still taboo and take more convincing.

    I number closed & f-closed a girl all in the same day only a couple of weeks ago and I've been caught up in good conversation and chatted with one for about a week before I realised.
    I even number closed a girl on POF once with my opener lol her reply was something like hahaha omg we need to hang out and her phone number!

    The point is it's up to you to decide how much effort you want to put into each HB and how much time they're worth.

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    Default Re: Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?

    I used to string them along for a few days before I went for the number, just so I didn't come off as being over-eager. A lot of times the girl would end up giving me her digits without me asking g for them.


    But after a couple days I would close the number if she hasn't given them to me.

    The key is to take each interaction on a case by case basis.
    There's nothing wrong with building anticipation.

    So don't rush the Number Close... But at the same time, don't wait TOO long.


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