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    Default Is this a test or do I set up a date

    Me: So when are we getting married, that's how this thing works right?

    Her:I mean, that's what I thought...

    Me:Well Kortney if we are gonna do this we have to do it right go to Vegas get married by a Mexican Elvis impersonator.. Steal Mike Tyson's tiger, wind up with a baby and steal a cop car.. Alright that's the wedding What the hell are we gonna do for the honeymoon?

    Her:Lol I'm going to leave the planning up to you, I'll provide the alcohol.

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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    That should not be a question. Read your headline and your content. Clearly you asking if it is a test or should you set up a date is incongruent with what you sent. In other words....

    Stay congruent. No she doesn't want marry you dude quit farking around with that shallow mentality. She thinks your cute and original so she likes talking to you. Women are emotional beings remember? Clearly she is NOT logically planning this out she likes the feeling she gets talking to you.


    Basically you gotta hold the same frame so you shot yourself in the foot a bit being overly entertaining and rather cliche. Now your only saving grace since clearly you were joking is to follow suit. Asking for a date is gonna fark up your game.

    So ask her to go joyriding for a pretend honeymoon your only chance maybe. You missed the buck and way over promised the fun now you gotta deliver. Take her to a boring date and it's over. Try to under promise and over deliver next time. I never expect to over promise girls anything I expect them to appreciate me and accept whatever I offer them. That's the difference between success and desperation. You sounding desperate brah and she is gonna hear it if you can't get it together man!
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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    Agree with Jack here, this is just playing but is defiantly not asking her out. You can follow this up with a direct action.
    "What's you adres again? Picking you up in 2 hours. Get the boose ready!"

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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    Quote Originally Posted by cyanide View Post
    Me: So when are we getting married, that's how this thing works right?

    Her:I mean, that's what I thought...

    Me:Well Kortney if we are gonna do this we have to do it right go to Vegas get married by a Mexican Elvis impersonator.. Steal Mike Tyson's tiger, wind up with a baby and steal a cop car.. Alright that's the wedding What the hell are we gonna do for the honeymoon?

    Her:Lol I'm going to leave the planning up to you, I'll provide the alcohol.
    The bad thing about canned material is that, since it doesn't come from your imagination, you'll have a hard time figuring out what to say next in order to keep the congruency.

    The good thing is that, if done properly, it will make her interested.

    You started with C&F, so keep with it.
    "So you just wanna sit in the sofa and drinking booze... I hope you're rich... I may be able to support that, as long as you babysit me financially! My good looks need to be paid! ;p"

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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    Yeah duh I know she is not gonna marry me I know it's just playful but using it imagination to come up with opener usually backfires why not use canned opener that works I made it my own though after the opener.. I'll try the address thing though and see what happens..

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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    Quote Originally Posted by cyanide View Post
    Yeah duh I know she is not gonna marry me I know it's just playful but using it imagination to come up with opener usually backfires why not use canned opener that works I made it my own though after the opener.. I'll try the address thing though and see what happens..
    Works for the person who wrote it because it was congruent with his personality. If it wasn't, he'd fuck up in the follow up.

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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    And again congruence rules the day. Great advice on here telling him to keep it clean and snappy like a boss! Great suggestions for helping this guy out for I think he is listening. However man didn't you start out this thread thinking super needy TC? Now you're on here denying your intentions. Man don't be afraid to tell us you like a girl just don't be so desperate and then act like you weren't desperate. If you are not congruent on here you are gonna struggle a lot in the game. Remember the more congruent you are the less you get sh!t tested. Almost like a walk in the park compared to a nightmare. For instance...

    We don't care if you like her great but follow it up with something congruent and preferably something in connection to the same "fun guy" frame as before. You see when you go out as the fun guy to get her attention you can really fark it up by becoming needy ie she will sense this that you were too gamey if the "fun guy" disappears and the "real you" aka needy guy appears. This is a common practice why women test men. Girls do it to me all the time. Even if I am a congruent asshole I will be better off than an incongruent Nice Guy. Feed your emotions first and don't stop playing the frame.
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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    Oh no there is no denying my intentions I wanna meet up and hopefully fark the girl but what I was saying my made up openers don't work well when I use canned they work I'm not at the stage to use made up openers with success.

    I'm just not to sure where to go now, use one the lines you guys suggested but that is more canned material so I wouldn't know where to go with it..

    I started out with canned material but the Vegas line was all mine referred to hangover so I'm assuming I need to think of something else in order to stay congruent

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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    Here is what I am sending I made it up tweaked the one about the address I changed it to number and add some of the humor from the first and stated a fact I like crown royal idk if it will work but if it doesn't atleast it had congruency.. Let you all know what happens.. Thanx for the help!!
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    Default Re: Is this a test or do I set up a date

    How do I respond now I posted previous message and she messaged back, lol you're crazy!! Now I have no idea what to do how to respond ... Help!!??


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