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Thread: Putting a Girl in her place

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    Default Putting a Girl in her place

    Currently I'm dating this girl who i like to fall a roller coster girl. Because everyday she wakes up with a different emotion. We have been dating for a few months we have sex ( not very often for me). She is a divorced girl 22 years old and she has some insecurities about being wanted since her ex husband cheated on her. Now she thinks im very open and flirtatious with other woman especially in club environments. But she thinks she is a dominent female, i disagree, she emotions are just so hot and cold. Now some contributing factors are that I had erectile problems a few times while we had sex. I think i have low testosterone or just masterbate too much. We have alot of fun together and I want to give her a title and work toward a long term relationship. Alot of the people around say shes a bitch and dont date her. Including one of my very attractive coworkers, who also has met her and frlt the same way. Now the roller coster girl met my co worker and felt very insecure because dace it my coworker is freaking hot and she lets me drive her car(roller coster doesnt know) and she grabbed my dick at work a few times. Now me and roller coster talk at least twice a day and she says ooo lets just me friends, but hell we do more things then just friends. Also i had to note im doing mostly for her examples and paying for dates etc. She has token me to the movies once. Now i need help her, i really never had an aplha male role model in my life just a lazy ass beta male who made my mom do all the work. I have a spine dont get me wrong, im just lost for decent words apot because i generally had two sides, really caring or super hulk mess things up mode. I want to be firm and convey the message that she doesnt run anythint but her mouth and penis runs the word, and if she wants to go she will be replaced. Even though i have feelings for her ive never told her I love. Im thinking she is reading that and is scared i might say it and trying to run before it happens. Do i need to make sure she is infatuated with me? If shes know any good tips on hrr to make her work to get me

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    Default Re: Putting a Girl in her place

    22 year old girls have no idea what they want.... Now the fact that she was married once may seem good at first but its actually has its down sides.. How long was that relationship? Relationships can actually stun your growth as a individual because you lose touch with the outside world focusing on the safety and enjoying the security of your own relationship. A lot changes when you get out and its hard to keep up with the vigorous pace of life on the outside. example a person who may have gone to jail in 1996 to get released in 2000 came home to a internet crazed world. In fact i went to high school with a kid who went to jail for stealing a cd player. When he came out he out the world had I pods. Time changes things.... At it does matter. That being said that fact that she's 22 and a BITCH. You shouldn't trust her. Im 32 if i was even to consider dating a 25 year old she'd have to respect me for the man that I am. She'd have to not be a Bitch. I don't care if she was married twice. Her relationship with me would be a learning experience she'd benefit from greatly. If she treated as anything else we couldn't deal.. My advice to you is just F-close this girl constantly and don't push for a relationship. If she wants to be friends be friends.. Get some Push Pull going and F-Close. You don't bring up GF or Bf to her. Now as far as your co-worker goes. Make a new post about her..She obviously has feeling for you. Lets get her seduced and F-closed..
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    Default Re: Putting a Girl in her place

    This is how you put a girl in her place...you don't care. If she says "lets be friends" you say "I agree. I was thinking the same thing". If she says "You flirt with every girl" you say "you're right. I like women and I enjoy flirting. We aren't together so what's the problem?"

    You also stop caring what mood she's in. When you let a girl effect you, you give her power. Stop doing that now. If she's mad let her be mad and have a good time. I hate it when a friend of mine lets his girlfriends mood effect his mood. I'm dating a girl now and if she gets upset with me I really don't give a shit. The other day I pushed her off my lap and wouldn't kiss her. She got all b!itchy and mad but I didn't care. I acted the same as I always do and ignored her behavior. She was fine and this worked in my favor.

    If she's being absolutely out of line you correct her. Say "I don't tolerate this type of behavior. If you're going to act like this you need to leave." Let her leave and don't bat an eye about it. She'll come around eventually and apologize. This is how you put a girl in her place. You don't let her affect you and you don't get emotional about it. You do it in a stern "matter of fact" way. That's the key, you don't let her effect you in any way and you don't care if she walks away.

    Like the other poster said, don't EVER bring up gf/bf stuff. Just act like I said and she'll bring it up eventually.

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    Default Re: Putting a Girl in her place

    Don't be afraid to cut her off mid sentence either if she's in the midst of a ridiculous rant. Alpha guys have no problem cutting someone off in the middle of talking if they feel it's necessary.


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