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    bookofheelai is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Tinder girl playing games, how to have handled the situation

    Tinder should be used just to play around, smalltalk, and fun. I don't expect to meet anyone. I'll say it is tough meeting people. They have to be really interested to meet you. I've chitchatted with a few matches but haven't met anyone I like. Some of those girls are attention whores too.

    Oh yeah. Watch out for the spams. If your flipping through make sure you can read their bio. If they only have two photos and no bio, it is MOST likely a spam lol.

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    Default Re: Tinder girl playing games, how to have handled the situation

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Yes, I'm an asshole and I love it. Am I supposed to feel insulted? lol

    Good thing that you stated the obvious. Now start to react as a man when someone tells you in what you're failing and then start to think about attracting girls, since you can't even handle rejection or critics.
    I apologize for calling you an asshole, you're trying to help so I shouldn't have said that. I was frustrated at the time of posting.

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    Paladin6596 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Tinder girl playing games, how to have handled the situation

    Quote Originally Posted by bookofheelai View Post
    My man Paladin,

    For future references, don't ask something like ... " are you talking about another guy from Tinder?"..

    It is needy behavior, which is turn OFF for women.

    If she makes other plans; let it go. I would've just said," alright, have a fun night! lmk if you want to hang out..." (something like that). I would leave it there. She'll either reply back, or not.

    Don't ask her questions like who's she's going out with. She barely even knows you. Building attraction, being playful, and keeping it open is the best way to go.

    It also seemed like you were trying to convince her to go out with you. BAD Idea. Reading sarcasm isn't easy via text. Even if you were joking, it still communicates neediness. She gonna wonder, "does this guy not have any other girls to go out with?"

    I'm gonna go with what T-Mal said. You gotta build it up. The attraction and anticipation. She gotta be excited about going out with you. Make it a challenge for her if possible. And if she doesn't respond, maybe she wasn't interested to begin with. In that case, move on the next one.
    Thank you for the response,

    It's hard to describe every little thing that was said including the tone of the convo writing here in this thread. This was a phone convo not a texting convo.

    I did smile throughout and kept things light and not serious but again its hard to describe that here in writing.

    When she said don't worry about it it was more me just calling her out on being secretive about the other guy which she did come forth and admit it. It was more like Haha are you talking about going with another guy from Tinder? In a light tone.

    I was trying to be assertive and persuasive when saying she should come out with me and that we could go drink and have fun. I dont like asking 'do you wanna go out' but rather just saying 'lets go out for a drink tonight' and just assume she'll go with it.

    I guess I've just never been in a situation where I ask a girl out and she is giving me these aloof dodging answers. Its usually a yes or no. But yeah all I can do is keep the convo light, fun and flirty and if shes not giving me a straight answer there's nothing I can do about it so just say OK well hit me up when you figure things out.

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    plurby is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Tinder girl playing games, how to have handled the situation

    Definitely seems like you're giving her the power. When she told you that she was going out with friends, you should have told her right there to have a good night. Nothing more or less. Make it seem like you've got more important things to do than talk and hang out with her, and that she should be the one honored to hang out with you


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