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    Question Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    Hey guys. I've been dating this girl I met for a month and a half. We met on pof and two weeks back she told me she wasn't seeing anyone else but also that she has deleted her pof.
    We aren't officially together. We have seen each other a lot and she said her last pof date before me two days before we met.

    Should I mention to her something like "I was closing my open windows on safari on my phone and your pof profile was one of the last open windows..... So you couldn't bring yourself to close it huh? " in a playful way or should I say nothing until we are exclusive? Will calling her out strengthen my position as partner potential or is that jealous behaviour?

    It's more about doing something you say you have and trust..... I wish I had been blissfully ignorant but now I'm not. What do I do?

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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    Don't give a fuck about it. If the two of you conveyed that you're not exclusive, then don't worry, keep gaming other girls.

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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    Thanks a lot Lenric. The answer seems to be game other girls to most things. It's tough when your aim is one female to compliment your lifestyle I guess. I asked because she said she did. If she hadn't said so, I wouldn't be saying anything.

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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    lenric is right.

    Confronting her will make you look like an AFC especially since the two of you aren't exclusive.

    Just keep seeing her and if she ever brings up another guy just say, "Hey we aren't exclusive so we're free to see others." Pretend that you don't care. If you want to end it quickly then become needy and confront her. It will end REALLY FAST.

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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    lenric is right.

    Confronting her will make you look like an AFC especially since the two of you aren't exclusive.

    Just keep seeing her and if she ever brings up another guy just say, "Hey we aren't exclusive so we're free to see others." Pretend that you don't care. If you want to end it quickly then become needy and confront her. It will end REALLY FAST.
    Thanks for a solid answer Dave. You're right.

    I was curious though, is there anyway of working it into a joking remark like "at least you'll have a chance to get back to all those guys chasing you on P.O.F." Things like that?

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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    There's really no way to "joke" about it.
    The comment would come across as snide & petty.

    Let it go & just be the most interesting & most fun guy she knows.
    If you do that, she won't even think about POF. It won't matter if her account is active or not, if she's not even logging into the site.


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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ctrlindustries View Post
    Thanks a lot Lenric. The answer seems to be game other girls to most things. It's tough when your aim is one female to compliment your lifestyle I guess. I asked because she said she did. If she hadn't said so, I wouldn't be saying anything.
    The answer is always that, because that's how your interactions with girls should be. Why? Because that's the most effective way of having an amusing conversation and still being dominant.

    A guy who's naturally dominant and funny will always attract girls, even though he may not be aware of that. It's just the right way of handling conversations. By being smooth, witty and charming. It shouldn't be an act. It should be how you behave.

    And no, there's no way of turning it into a joking remark without losing value. There's, however, a way of turning something quite similar into a joking remark which will elevate your status, because she won't believe you and laugh: "soooo, next 2 weeks I'll be yours only at mondays and thursdays. The other days I'm already reserved for other girls... damn, it's tough to be such a sex symbol!"

    With a smile however, and with proper body language, no voice trembling.

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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    Been a development. She has had her phone open in front of me scrolling through apps and says pof right there in blue and big. Can I make a funny comment about if she's got any funny messages etc?

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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    That STILL expresses jealousy, neediness & makes you look unsure of yourself.

    INSTEAD, open YOUR phone & pull up the POF app. Make HER ask YOU about it.

    Then you can say something like, "Yeah, I keep getting messages from girls... they're blowing up my inbox... you know how it is. But I'm looking forward to being able to remove my profile completely when I find someone who is also tired of the process & is ready to see what can happen."

    But no... DON'T make an issue out of it.
    Right now you're coming across as "wanting to get back at her" like in a semi-vindictive way.

    Focus on YOU... not on HER. You need to stop worrying what SHE is doing, and do everything you can to keep making self improvements.



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    Default Re: Girl says she deleted pof but hasn't after a month. Call her out?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That STILL expresses jealousy, neediness & makes you look unsure of yourself.

    INSTEAD, open YOUR phone & pull up the POF app. Make HER ask YOU about it.

    Then you can say something like, "Yeah, I keep getting messages from girls... they're blowing up my inbox... you know how it is. But I'm looking forward to being able to remove my profile completely when I find someone who is also tired of the process & is ready to see what can happen."

    But no... DON'T make an issue out of it.
    Right now you're coming across as "wanting to get back at her" like in a semi-vindictive way.

    Focus on YOU... not on HER. You need to stop worrying what SHE is doing, and do everything you can to keep making self improvements.

    Thanks T-Mal. I just like her a lot.


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