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    Default all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't replied

    All was going well with this girl I met off Tinder and I did something that farked it up can anyone explain to me what went wrong mainly would like to fix it in the future this one seems lost now but can always try a re-opener later .. Here is the transcript

    Me: Happy Thanksgiving Princess Sparkles did you have a good holiday or did you just cause ruckus?

    Her: Lol you're my favorite person ever.
    Her: It's been good! You?

    Me: Why am I your favorite person ever?
    Me: Worked for 4hrs and ate like I been stranded on a island with a coconut named bob

    Her: Because you're adorable and you make me laugh every time you text me lol.

    Here I was trying to go more sexual innuendo with this message but as you will see she didn't take the bait..

    Me: Thanx Sweet Face :-D, Did you get stuffed today? We had a non traditional thanksgiving.

    Her: Ours was really small. But I am pretty tipsy lol

    Me: So this is the last sober text I will receive from you lol.. ;-)

    Again trying to use sexual innuendo and she doesn't really respond to it

    Me: Shopping a girl's best friend or is that shoes or maybe the D word. ;-)

    Her: Lol!!! How are you?

    Me: You do know I meant Diamonds right (What were you thinking) ;-)
    Me: I'm feeling spunky what about you

    Thur- 8:19 pm
    Her: Lol eh diamonds, aren't my favorite. And I'm good! On our way to shop

    Thur- 8:21 pm
    Me: Watch out for Soccer Moms with mean right hooks ;-)


    Fri- 1:58 pm

    Me: A basket of puppies & Ice cold beer I could use ONE of these right now.


    Sun- 10:38 AM

    Me: What the hell have you been up this weekend.. Let me guess, you got trampled by Soccer Mom's and over eager house wives. You're in the hospital and I had no idea.. Idk which hospital or if prefer daises over Lotuses?

    Now I haven't heard anything out of her at all I thought that maybe she lost her phone or didn't pay the bill because I have her on Facebook but she shared something on Facebook 7 minutes ago .. I have no idea where I went wrong in this conversation but I would like to know it would be a dlv to try to resurrect this convo now but in the future it could be possible..


    now she just liked something that I posted on Facebook I am very confused

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    If I had to guess where you went wrong; I would say by constantly joking with her. It's AWESOME and a very good thing that she thinks you're funny and has positive thoughts of you when you interact. I think what you did wrong is joking TOO much with her. You got her to laugh, but every thing you do with her is trying to make her laugh. She knows you have a good sense of humor and that is KEY bro. Girls loooooove a guy who can make them laugh. You've established that with her. Now, you need to show her you can have other qualities. Have a semi-serious convo with her about something she's passionate about. Throw in a joke here and there but mostly be genuine. She will see you as a COMPLETE guy and less of a comedian. Too funny is friend zone, just funny enough with a serious side who gets sh*t done too gets you laid. You can do it bro.

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    I see what your saying absolutely trying way too hard to be funny I was joking entirely too much I guess I'll wait few weeks and try to re opener do you know a good one that is a little more serious all ones I know are joking maybe .. Kortney hey scrolling thru my phone book and saw your number and thought it was a shame we never got to hang out??

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    Now you got it. Yeah, joking a bit too much. Sure. You can try an opinion opener on her. I do this to girls often. Make up some crap like.... "So, check this out. My little sister met this guy a few weeks back and is totally in love with him. He's all she talks about. They're apparently planning on moving in together and haven't even known each other for a full month. Ever heard of anything like it???" Just something like that will show her that you have interaction with you family and you're a normal dude and the fact that you realize your little sister doing something clearly stupid like that shows her you have common sense and also shows you being a protector for identifying it. Hope this helps.

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    Remember girls drop texts everyday, don't be outcome dependent. She may have not recieved your text or was just busy. Don't always put the blame on yourself, things happen and you can't always get your way. Trust me, I'm starting to learn that a lot these days.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    Are you actually texting her? Or is this all in the tinder chat? The goal of tinder is to move OFF tinder as fast as possible. I.e. Get the Number Close and start texting her. If she feels like it's going no where, she's not going to invest in you and not take you seriously.

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    Also, a detail: don't ask WHY you're her favorite person. Asking comes off as not so confident. You should just KNOW you're the best, and OF COURSE you're her favorite person, duh.
    'The Game is what gives a PUA his power. It's an energy field created by all living things. It surrounds us and penetrates us. It binds the world together.'

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    Quote Originally Posted by NakedTruth View Post
    Also, a detail: don't ask WHY you're her favorite person. Asking comes off as not so confident. You should just KNOW you're the best, and OF COURSE you're her favorite person, duh.
    I was thinking this exact same thing. Who cares why you're her favorite. Just take it as "damn strait I am!"

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    You sent texts with sexual innuendo? Are they here? 'Cause if they are, then they're just boring and weird texts, I don't see any sexual innuendo.

    I see needy texts with no congruence. I see boring texts with nothing that sets you apart from others. You really didn't make her the aggressor.
    Your opener was very good and I give you props for it, but that was the only good thing.


    If you want to put some sexual innuendo, then you must acknowledge barriers and don't say shit like D word. D word for what? Dildo? Dick? Really lol?

    "Hey sassy pants! Yesterday I was with a girl friend in xxxx shopping and I saw you. I immediatly thought "oh my, she's here to buy some fancy clothes in order to be smoking beautiful to hang out with me! So cute!!". You think I'm that easy?! I'm ashamed... "

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    Default Re: all was going well and I effed something up because now she hasn't repl

    Make sure she's not the ONLY girl you're communicating with right now. You should have several girls in your "active roster" for gaming. That way, when one of them starts to cool off (and they WILL) you still have several others to keep you from becoming desperate.

    I've had LOTS of girls just sorta fade out over time. It happens. It's part of the process. Don't put too much focus on one particular girl too soon.

    Take a few days & see which one(s) respond more enthusiastically than the rest. THEN make her more of your focal point, and put the others on "simmer".

    Remember, you're not gonna win 'em all. Some girls will just start to drop off for whatever reason. (Maybe they were chatting with another guy who lives closer & they decided to pursue that option for now)

    It's not a big deal... there are PLENTY of other girls out there, so you just have to be persistent & consistent.


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