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    Default Just... Not sure what's going on

    I don't really want to go into full detail but my mind is a bit confused. Either I'm over thinking this or it's just how she is.

    This is what I noticed:

    -She initiated the first kiss.
    -She told me she is a confusing person and it's hard for her to like someone.
    -When I asked her what WE are she said "I guess we're dating"
    (I straight up told her... are we just friends or... something more?)
    -She gets all warm and cuddly next to me.
    -We've been out passed midnight many times.
    -She honestly initiates a lot of the physical contact between us.
    -She initiated this other "special" kiss which was kind of making out but it wasn't for very long... but still.

    Most of our nights involve cuddling somewhere outside and just enjoying our company. We get real close and get real comfortable with each other. Like whenever she holds my hand when we drive around it's usually right in between her thighs. We;re just really comfortable with each other.

    I've never been in a relationship and she hasn't either but I feel like I'm putting more effort than she is. At the same time though I feel that the technology is the cause of my over thinking and confusion. She takes a long time to reply to a text or she doesn't even reply.

    In person it feels like a relationship but when we're not together it feels like... nothing at all.

    I told her my feelings a couple times and she always replies with... "I like hanging/going out with you too." She never said she "Likes me"

    After that I just decided to go slow and go with the flow. She's a different girl from the rest around my area. She's into smarter people and I need to get my shit together because I actually really care for her.

    I honestly feel like I'm going to lose her. There was one time where I straight up told her to text me whenever she wants to hang out. She didn't text me until 2 weeks later asking how I've been and saying we should hang out. I realized that she did miss me, but still.

    Should I start initiating the physical contact a lot more often?
    She doesn't really express her feelings with words... more so... physical.

    I feel like she doesn't trust me too. Well she did say she doesn't trust me one time... but not sure if it was sarcastic or not. She actually looked through my phone and I saw that she was looking at my texts. Also we don't text that much either. Mostly about plans and that's it.

    Not sure how to handle this lol.

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    Default Re: Just... Not sure what's going on

    You need to bang her already!

    You know the song girls just wanna have fun? It really means "girls just wanna get f*cked". Get it done.

    If you want her to trust you tell her "You shouldn't trust me. I don't know you well enough yet." (Credit to David X). This will get her to trust you.

    If you're unsure HOW to get her into bed read this http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...rough-lmr.html. This is your next step. Everything you've explained points yourself in this direction. Get it done or you're done. Cheers!

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    Default Re: Just... Not sure what's going on

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    You need to bang her already!

    You know the song girls just wanna have fun? It really means "girls just wanna get f*cked". Get it done.

    If you want her to trust you tell her "You shouldn't trust me. I don't know you well enough yet." (Credit to David X). This will get her to trust you.
    I forgot to mention the age... she's not 18 yet. She is 17 and I'm 20. I had doubts about the age difference at first but we got a long pretty good so I just said screw it. Once she turns 18 the age won't matter. I'm not going to fuck her until she turns 18. I'm just... not going to haha.

    Pretty sure shes a virgin still, but is quite comfortable physically. But yeah I need to show her that I can be trusted somehow. She said she hates when people lie to her.

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    Default Re: Just... Not sure what's going on

    This is all I will say on the subject. You either bang her or you don't. There's a time limit on these things. You're only 2 to 3 years older then her. That's not a big deal.

    You get her to trust you by telling her not to trust you. You get her to trust you by telling her you're the biggest liar she's ever met. Get my drift?


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