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Thread: Persistance vs. Neediness

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    Default Persistance vs. Neediness

    Long story short, I'm trying to balance keeping in touch with a girl I'm seeing without seeming needy. My concern comes from the fact that one she isnt a big texter and if we are texting it's usually about making plans/how are schedules cant match up so we cant see each other.

    In person the dates have been outstanding and there have been several.

    So in the mean time though, I need some help creating a plan to keep her interested but also not seem like a...I guess I'll go with beta

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Persistance vs. Neediness

    Long story short, I'm trying to balance keeping in touch with a girl I'm seeing without seeming needy. My concern comes from the fact that one she isnt a big texter and if we are texting it's usually about making plans/how are schedules cant match up so we cant see each other.
    1. this should not be a problem, I love it when a girl doesn't constantly text me wanting to be entertained. consider yourself lucky. lol


    In person the dates have been outstanding and there have been several.
    2. if its not broke, don't fix it!
    as long as your in person game is good and she keeps wanting to hang out then you're doing everything right.

    3. there's really no need to text her constantly, but do text her at least once a week so she still knows you're alive. (I assume you're doing just fine however you're going about it)

    I need some help creating a plan to keep her interested
    4. here's a plan, have lots of fun every time you go out with her and she will surely want to keep going out with you. have some other girls to text when you get bored, and don't worry constantly about whether she's attracted or not.

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    Default Re: Persistance vs. Neediness

    Kiss her and fuck her. Preferably somewhere in this year. That's the plan you need to keep her interested. You're welcome.

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    Default Re: Persistance vs. Neediness

    Meteora gave great advice! Dude she's not texting you all the time! This is a good thing!

    This is what I do. I hang out with her, bang her, then I don't contact her until I want to hang out again. If she contacts me I'll respond but only a few times then I let it go dead. When I want to bang her again I contact her and set something up. Rinse and repeat.

    If you do this well enough she starts contacting you all the time and you only hang out with her when you want too. Game, set, and match.

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    Default Re: Persistance vs. Neediness

    Much appreciated everyone. Thank you


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